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why would they think they were ugly and not some other problem and find out what it is and then work on him/herself
There could be a good answer to this question.
Why – because the instinctive thing people believe when they don’t get a second date is that the other person did not find them attractive.
i dont know about you but i didn’t feel that way (maybe it’s a girl thing)
mbachur- because you cant know enough about someone’s insides after one date. Its usually a physical thing. People are too complex and you cant figure them out after 2.5 hours.
Unless you see after 1 date that ur hashkafos are radically diff there is no reason to say no, unless the guy/girl has a complete lack of middos.