Girls, listen up: when my mother dated my father, he had never touched a cigarette. He started after he got married. I still remember when it was once a month, then once a week, and now it’s a few times a day! 😢 so I think it’s ridiculous to say no to smokers because anyone can start. If Hashem wants you to marry a smoker, you will, even though he doesn’t smoke yet when you date