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    a girl 613
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    Girls, listen up: when my mother dated my father, he had never touched a cigarette. He started after he got married. I still remember when it was once a month, then once a week, and now it’s a few times a day! 😢 so I think it’s ridiculous to say no to smokers because anyone can start. If Hashem wants you to marry a smoker, you will, even though he doesn’t smoke yet when you date

    #2503569
    commonsaychel
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    Girls, never date a troll, the comments above is all the proof you need.

    #2504125

    girls, listen up – if you marry a non-smoker and he starts smoking, everyone will blame you for that.
    But if you marry a smoker and he stops, everyone will think it is your influence. so, only upside here.

    #2505333
    rescue
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    What is unreasonable is to ask him to change himself in order to get married. He’s not for sale. Actually he needs to be accepted as he is in order to have a happy life. It’s better to go in being genuine then to sell a lie. Sorry

    #2505486
    v32itas
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    resque, haha, you are intelligent, there is hope for you to some day actally find a suitible husband.

    #2505880
    rescue
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    Legen-dary
    There you go degrading men. It’s a ciggerete and you clearly have impossible standards. He’s supposed to be a “mind reader” duh. Anyways adorable, if you met the perfect guy and he fits everything you ever wanted would you say no if he smokes? Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water

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