Smoking in Shidduchim

Girls, listen up: when my mother dated my father, he had never touched a cigarette. He started after he got married. I still remember when it was once a month, then once a week, and now it’s a few times a day! 😢 so I think it’s ridiculous to say no to smokers because anyone can start. If Hashem wants you to marry a smoker, you will, even though he doesn’t smoke yet when you date

girls, listen up – if you marry a non-smoker and he starts smoking, everyone will blame you for that.
But if you marry a smoker and he stops, everyone will think it is your influence. so, only upside here.

resque, haha, you are intelligent, there is hope for you to some day actally find a suitible husband.

I want to tell you that nobody cares what you want. And as a man I reserve a right to degradr other men. they are all weaklings by birth and if they are not treated harshly they dont learn anything. Problem is that it is not for women to do this. And nobody has a right to want anything unless they go get it themselves. Perfect husband such nonsense does not exist.
What I told you that it is possible for you to find a suitable husband nothing else nothing more. And he will never be what you wanted. And he will never be perfect. Keep seeking understanding and a suitable husband will be easier to achieve.