Status, social hiarchy and death of the self

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    nevuah
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    Social insecurity arises in status-focused societies because individuals feel compelled to engage in social camouflaging (masking their true personalities) to meet rigid, often unrealistic expectations of “normality.” This pressure is exacerbated by social pressure and marketing, which create idealized benchmarks that lead to constant social comparison and feelings of inadequacy when one cannot maintain a perfect facade.

    The pursuit of status transforms social interaction into a hierarchical competition where low-status individuals experience heightened status uncertainty and fear of rejection. This dynamic forces people to suppress their authentic selves to avoid marginalization, leading to chronic stress, anxiety, and a sense of being an outsider, as the system prioritizes conformity over individual well-being.

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    Happy new year
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    Every time I shut you up in one thread, you open a new one lol

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    nevuah
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    Because these are important things to talk about

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    qwerty613
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    To Happy

    This is the only thing the lunatic has in his life so he can’t give it up.

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    nevuah
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    Qwerty thank you. I’m such an lunatic. Got it. Moving on

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    Koifer BIkur
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    What “nevuah” writes is true and plays out in the frum community every day. So what can be done about it?

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    qwerty613
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    To Koifer Blkur

    You ask a good question, and the answer is that nothing can be done about it. We can rail against materialism, but those who have money fuel the Mosdos and so no one is going to tell them what to do. And we can tell shadchanim that they should put a premium on menschlichkeit, but it will go in one ear and out the other. Your question explains why I don’t get involved in these discussions because it just leads to people venting their frustration with the system. You can’t fight city hall, so s person just has to find a happy medium in his own life.

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