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    Francorachel3
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    How’do you diplomatically tell parents of 2 misbehaving and destructive young boys that their kids are disrupting our davening when they’re brought to shul? They also misbehave in social settings, but the parents ignore it. Say something, or stay quiet and suffer?

    #1108633
    MDG
    Participant

    How old are the boys roughly?

    #1108634
    Health
    Participant

    Tell them, but only do it during the time that they’re doing something wrong!

    #1108635
    oot for life
    Participant

    Speak to the Rav, its his shul let him control the decorum.

    #1108636

    18 and 21

    #1108637
    TheGoq
    Participant

    “but the parents ignore it” ding ding ding ding they do not care I’ve seen a lot of children behaving badly in public situations while the parent is shmoozing or whatever they just learn to tune it out.

    Also

    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/what-happens-after-they-leave-for-shul-friday-night

    #1108638
    the plumber
    Member

    I have a better question,

    How do you tell sometimes children that their parents are misbehaving in shul and in social settings?

    This is probably the more common problem

    #1108639
    eclipse
    Member

    Never lump “parents” together. One of them may agree with you.

    #1108641
    oomis
    Participant

    “but the parents ignore it” ding ding ding ding they do not care I’ve seen a lot of children behaving badly in public situations while the parent is shmoozing or whatever they just learn to tune it out.”

    What can you expect from kids when their parents set such a fine example for them? I would talk to the Rov first and have him or maybe the Shul President handle this.

    #1108642
    skripka
    Participant

    sorry to say , but at twenty and twenty one years old, the parents listen to them

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