October 29, 2015 8:41 pm at 8:41 pm #616579Francorachel3Participant
How’do you diplomatically tell parents of 2 misbehaving and destructive young boys that their kids are disrupting our davening when they’re brought to shul? They also misbehave in social settings, but the parents ignore it. Say something, or stay quiet and suffer?October 29, 2015 9:13 pm at 9:13 pm #1108633MDGParticipant
How old are the boys roughly?October 29, 2015 9:17 pm at 9:17 pm #1108634HealthParticipant
Tell them, but only do it during the time that they’re doing something wrong!October 29, 2015 9:18 pm at 9:18 pm #1108635oot for lifeParticipant
Speak to the Rav, its his shul let him control the decorum.October 29, 2015 9:21 pm at 9:21 pm #1108636YW Moderator-29 👨💻Moderator
18 and 21October 29, 2015 9:49 pm at 9:49 pm #1108637TheGoqParticipant
“but the parents ignore it” ding ding ding ding they do not care I’ve seen a lot of children behaving badly in public situations while the parent is shmoozing or whatever they just learn to tune it out.
AlsoOctober 29, 2015 10:06 pm at 10:06 pm #1108638the plumberMember
I have a better question,
How do you tell sometimes children that their parents are misbehaving in shul and in social settings?
This is probably the more common problemNovember 1, 2015 10:07 pm at 10:07 pm #1108639eclipseMember
Never lump “parents” together. One of them may agree with you.November 1, 2015 11:27 pm at 11:27 pm #1108641oomisParticipant
“but the parents ignore it” ding ding ding ding they do not care I’ve seen a lot of children behaving badly in public situations while the parent is shmoozing or whatever they just learn to tune it out.”
What can you expect from kids when their parents set such a fine example for them? I would talk to the Rov first and have him or maybe the Shul President handle this.November 2, 2015 2:23 am at 2:23 am #1108642skripkaParticipant
sorry to say , but at twenty and twenty one years old, the parents listen to them
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