March 23, 2019 11:46 pm at 11:46 pm #1700045
I seem to run into this challenge every Purim. I have a policy to give everyone who comes to my home on Purim collecting tzedaka a few hundred dollars each. The issue that arises is that some mosdos have upwards of a dozen guys (or even teenagers) coming by. I don’t necessarily think they do this as a strategy, but more likely each collector thinks on his own of coming independently of other collectors for the same mosod.
My gabbai does keep a running tally throughout the day of who was given how much and for which mosdos. But I’ve been reluctant until now to decline to give someone (or to give less than a b’kovodike amount) just because someone else already collected for the same mosod. But I think it’s now getting out of hand with some mosdos receiving a few thousand each, simply because more guys were collecting for them, and other mosdos, no less worthy, are receiving only several hundred each.
What would you do in such a matzif?March 23, 2019 11:54 pm at 11:54 pm #1700078☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant
Just do what I do. Give them all $2,500 regardless.March 24, 2019 8:02 am at 8:02 am #1700168
DY: I wish I could do that but I’m not a gvir like you. Which is why I find this matzav challenging in the first place. If I had unlimited resources I’d do exactly as you suggest and more.March 24, 2019 1:20 pm at 1:20 pm #1700340akupermaParticipant
The guideline I heard is that Matanos l’Evyonim should be greater than the amount spent on the Seudah and Shlach Manos.
I don’t think that people collecting door to door has a halachic basis, and it certainly isn’t part of the mitsvos of the day.March 24, 2019 1:29 pm at 1:29 pm #1700335👑RebYidd23Participant
Change your policy to give $1 bills and hand them out in fistfuls.March 24, 2019 3:08 pm at 3:08 pm #1700352
RY23: I give checks rather than cash. I’ve found over the years that checks helps alleviate the issue of cash getting lost or inadvertently misapplied/going to an unintended recipient.March 24, 2019 3:09 pm at 3:09 pm #1700354
AKuperman: The Halacha on Purim is that we don’t ask questions before giving tzedaka; we give to all who ask.March 24, 2019 4:30 pm at 4:30 pm #1700406The little I knowParticipant
Supporting yeshivos and many other causes are certainly praiseworthy and great mitzvos. However, these have no greater connection to Purim than any other day of the year. The only form of tzedokoh that is connected to Purim is Matanos Loevyonim. There are causes that fit within the rubric of Matanos Loevyonim, at least the spirit of it.March 24, 2019 6:44 pm at 6:44 pm #1700433☕️coffee addictParticipant
I would make a game where you have a bunch of envelopes each with a check for a certain amount and the mosad (or the group leader) would have to choose a bachur to pick out the checkMarch 24, 2019 10:52 pm at 10:52 pm #1700443
CA: The problem with your suggestion is that the bochorim (from the same mosdos) come at different times during Purim. It’s not like they’re all there at the same time.
TLIK: Are you suggesting that I treat Purim no different than any other day of the year insofar as supporting mosdos?March 25, 2019 5:12 pm at 5:12 pm #1701205☕️coffee addictParticipant
“CA: The problem with your suggestion is that the bochorim (from the same mosdos) come at different times during Purim. It’s not like they’re all there at the same time.“
Then I suggest you move OOT
Bachurim don’t come separately oot
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