I’m not unto your history here, it appears you’re quite new. You started a real hottie, then you write “No bashing Please!”. Isn’t that an oxymoron? These convos are bound to go left, and real nasty. Aren’t you “asking” for it?
As for the one you accuse, again, you may be new here, you don’t know how he works, or what he means. Most times a post by him has to be read and re-read, to understand. I don’t think he had any evil intent this time.