The best & worst shidduch advice you’ve been told.
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August 30, 2017 3:07 am at 3:07 am #1350965HaimyParticipant
I have heard contradictory advice from otherwise smart & well-meaning people regarding marriage & shidduchim, I’m curious to hear from others what was the best or worst advice you were told.
August 30, 2017 8:36 am at 8:36 am #1351024Lilmod UlelamaidParticipantI could write a book on the topic (worst advice that is)!
August 30, 2017 9:45 am at 9:45 am #1351114JosephParticipantBest advice: Get married young.
Worst advice: Wait before jumping into marriage.
August 30, 2017 10:26 am at 10:26 am #1351184nishtdayngesheftParticipantWorst Advice: Post your shidduch questions on a public forum:
August 30, 2017 10:29 am at 10:29 am #1351161GadolhadorahParticipantBest advice: Follow your head, then your heart and if all else fails, follow the eitzah from Joseph.
August 30, 2017 5:42 pm at 5:42 pm #1351518Lilmod UlelamaidParticipantNisht – +1
August 30, 2017 5:48 pm at 5:48 pm #1351517Lilmod UlelamaidParticipantWorst advice: Keep going out with the guy even though you can’t stand him and would never possibly consider marrying him, even though (or because) he wants to marry you and doesn’t realize that you can’t stand him.
How often I was told this: Too many times to count.
August 30, 2017 5:48 pm at 5:48 pm #1351519Lilmod UlelamaidParticipantWorst advice- start dating before you’re ready
Given by: everyoneBest advice: Wait until you’re ready.
Given by: nobodyAugust 30, 2017 5:54 pm at 5:54 pm #1351549JosephParticipantBest advice: Marriage is like jumping into a cold pool on a hot summer day. Don’t be afraid; jump in and you’ll be happy you did.
Worst advice: The pool is too cold; stay out for awhile.
August 30, 2017 6:16 pm at 6:16 pm #1351555funnyboneParticipantBest advice for guys: Never make fun of anyone!
Worst advice: Try again, and again, and again.August 30, 2017 6:21 pm at 6:21 pm #1351562LightbriteParticipantOmgosh LU! <3 A++++++++++++++++++++++++ for you!!! 🙂
August 30, 2017 10:36 pm at 10:36 pm #1351787LightbriteParticipantBest advice: It’s time to stand up for yourself, and say “No” to what you will not accept in your life. Hashem put this person in your life as your opportunity to clarify what you want and what you don’t.
August 30, 2017 10:56 pm at 10:56 pm #1351806Lilmod UlelamaidParticipantLB – +1!
August 30, 2017 11:46 pm at 11:46 pm #1351861LightbriteParticipantThanks LU… and super thanks to the person who said this to me!! 🙂
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