The best & worst shidduch advice you’ve been told.

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    Haimy
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    I have heard contradictory advice from otherwise smart & well-meaning people regarding marriage & shidduchim, I’m curious to hear from others what was the best or worst advice you were told.

    #1351024

    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    I could write a book on the topic (worst advice that is)!

    #1351114

    Joseph
    Participant

    Best advice: Get married young.

    Worst advice: Wait before jumping into marriage.

    #1351184

    nishtdayngesheft
    Participant

    Worst Advice: Post your shidduch questions on a public forum:

    #1351161

    Gadolhadorah
    Participant

    Best advice: Follow your head, then your heart and if all else fails, follow the eitzah from Joseph.

    #1351518

    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    Nisht – +1

    #1351517

    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    Worst advice: Keep going out with the guy even though you can’t stand him and would never possibly consider marrying him, even though (or because) he wants to marry you and doesn’t realize that you can’t stand him.

    How often I was told this: Too many times to count.

    #1351519

    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    Worst advice- start dating before you’re ready
    Given by: everyone

    Best advice: Wait until you’re ready.
    Given by: nobody

    #1351549

    Joseph
    Participant

    Best advice: Marriage is like jumping into a cold pool on a hot summer day. Don’t be afraid; jump in and you’ll be happy you did.

    Worst advice: The pool is too cold; stay out for awhile.

    #1351555

    funnybone
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    Best advice for guys: Never make fun of anyone!
    Worst advice: Try again, and again, and again.

    #1351562

    Lightbrite
    Participant

    Omgosh LU! <3 A++++++++++++++++++++++++ for you!!! 🙂

    #1351787

    Lightbrite
    Participant

    Best advice: It’s time to stand up for yourself, and say “No” to what you will not accept in your life. Hashem put this person in your life as your opportunity to clarify what you want and what you don’t.

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    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    LB – +1!

    #1351861

    Lightbrite
    Participant

    Thanks LU… and super thanks to the person who said this to me!! 🙂

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