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You seem to rant a lot but do you actually have a source that would assur interaction between opposite genders in the coffee room?
Here’s a raya against what you’re saying:
The Ben Ish Chai on the Gemara in Sanhedrin 75a dealing with Arayos and talking with woman:
תְּסַפֵּר עִמּוֹ מֵאֲחוֹרֵי הַגָּדֵר. קשא מה הנאה יש לו בזה מאחר דאין רואה אותה כלל? ונראה לי אחר שאמרו ‘תַּעֲמֹד עֲרֻמָּה לְפָנָיו’ ולא נתנו רשות, חזרו ואמרו ‘תַּעֲמֹד עֲרֻמָּה אֲחוֹרֵי הַגָּדֵר’ ותדבר וכיון שהוא יודע שמדברת עמו בהיותה ערומה ומצייר דבר זה בדעתו יש לו הנאה.
I just logged on to to CR for the first time in months,
Who knew it was my yetzer hara testing me during the month of Elul.
It’s been nice ladies and gentlemen the case has been made that CR is assur. A gut yor
but it may be a treife duck
Reb E: Sadly, we have seen too many cases of geese masquerading as ducks in order to avoid becoming a foie gras factory, only to belatedly discover that under governing French law, the liver of EITHER goose OR duck fattened by gavage can be marketed as foie gras.