August 17, 2021 12:09 am at 12:09 am #2000505AriHaleviRosmanParticipant
While dating at 21 years old, you will only know you are married to “the one” if your spouse pushes you uphill in a wheelchair while struggling with their own walker en route to making Yimei Tovim by your grandchildren. Now stop being picky while dating!August 17, 2021 1:45 am at 1:45 am #2000549reform rabbiParticipant
Tora פ”ז in Likutei Moharan II contains the secret to finding your bashert as explained by Abraham to Eliezer. Check it out!August 17, 2021 2:54 am at 2:54 am #2000553rationalParticipant
OP: Nice thought.
There is no such expression as “yemei tovim”. “Yamim tovim” is correct.August 17, 2021 8:50 am at 8:50 am #2000607Reb EliezerParticipant
מאין יבא עזרי will she be a help towards spiritual needs or physical needs? ‘עזרי מעם ה if she is the basherte then עושי שמים וארץ both will be accomplished.
(from a Sefer Maharam Sofer, a nephew of the Machnei Chaim, Rav Chaim Sofer)August 17, 2021 8:53 am at 8:53 am #2000576Sam KleinParticipant
The secret to finding your bashert Zivvug IN TODAY’S GENERATION is making sure your doing your RUCHNIUS Hishtadlus of tefilla with bitachon and Emunah (faith and trust in Hashem) besides for your gashmius Hishtadlus after of dating and keeping in touch with Shadchanim etc…..
May Hashem help everyone find their Zivvug bkarov at the right time. Cause in truth let’s all stop the garbage already about the shidduch crises. I.e. THERE IS NO CRISES we all know the honest famous truth HASHEM HAS ALREADY CHOSEN A PERSON’S ZIVVUG 40 DAYS BEFORE HE OR SHE WAS EVEN BORN AND FORGET ABOUT THAT NOW IS MORE THEN 20 YEARS LATER OR SO. Hashem is just waiting for your call out to him which is your RUCHNIUS Hishtadlus ad written above.
Hope this helps many singles wake up quick to find their Zivvug bkarov ASAPAugust 17, 2021 10:18 am at 10:18 am #2000624☕️coffee addictParticipant
I think לע״ד that if you both want to grow together in רוחניות then that’s your bashertAugust 17, 2021 11:54 am at 11:54 am #2000671commonsaychelParticipant
Just wondering why you seem fixated with finding a shidduch and working boys, just about all your topics seem to be along thoses linesAugust 17, 2021 5:06 pm at 5:06 pm #2000776GadolhadorahParticipant
Don’t take any advice from someone who tries to rush you into a relationship. Trust your own judgement and rely upon your own instincts. And most importantly, ignore those who promote the big lie (aka the “shidduch crisis”) designed to provide full employment for shadchanim and sell phony segulahs.August 18, 2021 9:15 am at 9:15 am #2000900rationalParticipant
Phony segulahs. Correct, but redundant.August 18, 2021 10:25 pm at 10:25 pm #2001172GadolhadorahParticipant
rational: I’d be the last person to suggest ALL segulot are new age meshugaas but some of those we read about (and advertised with guarantees of success contingent upon a modest donation) see to stretch the bounds of both emunah and rationality.
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