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January 2, 2011 1:48 am at 1:48 am #593877

always happy27
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whtat are the top 5 character traits you would look for in a boy as a possible husband or as a parent what top 5 for a son-in-law

January 2, 2011 2:42 am at 2:42 am #723209

psach libi bsorasecha
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five??????i can list a few more than that than r really important to me.

-loving/caring

-happy

-sensitive

-thoughtful (may go along with sensitive, but i also mean this as thinking things through carefully before taking action)

-honest/open

-strong (not as in physically, although that’s good too, but i mean as in he will be strong in his convictions, a strong and good father figure to my children…)

well u said only five, that’s six, so i’ll leave it at that for now

January 2, 2011 2:49 am at 2:49 am #723210

frumladygit
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1. Good heart (Gives generously to all)

2. Knows when to remain silent and how to listen with heart.

3. Has a strong work ethic. (Is not going to be some bum sitting around in mikveh until 12 noon-expecting my taty to pay the bills)

4. Self control, does not lose temper.

5. Learns when can or has regular chavrusim.

January 2, 2011 3:22 am at 3:22 am #723211

psach libi bsorasecha
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oh yeah, i forgot something else really important: knows when to be serious,and when to have fun

January 2, 2011 3:33 am at 3:33 am #723212

artchill
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1. Chilled out enough to spand HOURS not minutes with the family.

2. Yiddishkeit is REAL as opposed to going through the motions

3. Industrious: Work or learn HARD

4. Patience

5. Strong clear opinions: This way people undertsand where he stands regardless if you agree or disagree!

January 2, 2011 3:35 am at 3:35 am #723213

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January 2, 2011 4:38 am at 4:38 am #723214

oomis
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Kind/empathetic, thoughtful, even-tempered, has a loving, communicative relationship with family and friends, honest
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