top 5 character traits
Home › Forums › Shidduchim › top 5 character traits
- This topic has 6 replies, 6 voices, and was last updated 12 years, 9 months ago by oomis.
-
AuthorPosts
-
January 2, 2011 1:48 am at 1:48 am #593877always happy27Participant
whtat are the top 5 character traits you would look for in a boy as a possible husband or as a parent what top 5 for a son-in-law
January 2, 2011 2:42 am at 2:42 am #723209psach libi bsorasechaMemberfive??????i can list a few more than that than r really important to me.
-loving/caring
-happy
-sensitive
-thoughtful (may go along with sensitive, but i also mean this as thinking things through carefully before taking action)
-honest/open
-strong (not as in physically, although that’s good too, but i mean as in he will be strong in his convictions, a strong and good father figure to my children…)
well u said only five, that’s six, so i’ll leave it at that for now
January 2, 2011 2:49 am at 2:49 am #723210frumladygitMember1. Good heart (Gives generously to all)
2. Knows when to remain silent and how to listen with heart.
3. Has a strong work ethic. (Is not going to be some bum sitting around in mikveh until 12 noon-expecting my taty to pay the bills)
4. Self control, does not lose temper.
5. Learns when can or has regular chavrusim.
January 2, 2011 3:22 am at 3:22 am #723211psach libi bsorasechaMemberoh yeah, i forgot something else really important: knows when to be serious,and when to have fun
January 2, 2011 3:33 am at 3:33 am #723212artchillParticipant1. Chilled out enough to spand HOURS not minutes with the family.
2. Yiddishkeit is REAL as opposed to going through the motions
3. Industrious: Work or learn HARD
4. Patience
5. Strong clear opinions: This way people undertsand where he stands regardless if you agree or disagree!
January 2, 2011 3:35 am at 3:35 am #723213Trying my bestMemberTorah
Midos
Talmid Chochom
Yirei Shmayim
Baal Chesed
January 2, 2011 4:38 am at 4:38 am #723214oomisParticipantKind/empathetic, thoughtful, even-tempered, has a loving, communicative relationship with family and friends, honest
-
AuthorPosts
- You must be logged in to reply to this topic.