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My Opinion:
What do you think?
Two Jews, three opinions.
In any event, a good wife accepts her husbands opinions.
You observed a phenomenon.
Your wife explained it.
Why can’t you both be right?
These are just two personality types. One type tries to focus on the outer positiveness and ignore the lack of inner contentment, while another focuses on the negative, trying to find ways to solve it, all the while being burdened by it. There is no one correct type. Everyone is different, and each opinion must be validated.
Patri, I usually wouldn’t say this, but I feel the need to if it can save a marriage: Your second sentence can many times be the driving force for a bitter and abusive relationship.
RA – I agree with DY. You made an observation. Your wife explained that observation. Whether there are other reasons besides your wifes’? Perhaps; but that wasn’t your question.
MP, not only is it correct, but it is precisely when a wife eschews her husbands opinions that often a relationship turns bitter and abusive.
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“MP, not only is it correct, but it is precisely when a wife eschews her husbands opinions that often a relationship turns bitter and abusive.”
Patri: So essentially what you are saying is that if a wife has an opinion and disagrees with what her husband is saying…the relationship will turn abusive….’cuz why…?
Husband will verbally or physically abuse his wife for have her own mind?!?
Please tell me I am reading into your words too much because my first instinct was to write something along the lines of what MiddlePath wrote..
What is clear is that you can say about these the opposite of ” eilu v’eilu …”
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