Wearing Kallah's Jewelry
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August 8, 2011 1:42 am at 1:42 am #598492person3Member
What is the mekor for friends wearing a kallah’s jewelry during her chuppah as a segula to get engaged? Is it a real segulah or is it made up…?
August 8, 2011 1:43 am at 1:43 am #795844StamperMemberFirst time I ever heard this.
August 8, 2011 3:04 am at 3:04 am #795845amichaiParticipantI do not think it is a segula. I think the kallah needs someone trustworthy to wear her jewelry for a short while.
August 8, 2011 3:44 am at 3:44 am #795846supportMemberI heard that it isn’t a segula and doesn’t have a mikur. The basis of the idea is that the Kallah is not allowed to wear jewlery to the chuppah and she will be conserned that something can happen to it as she is going under the chuppah and it will disturb her thoughts while Davening etc. Therefore, she gives it to a friend whom she trusts will guard it and return it to her after the chuppah. Since her friend allows to go to the chuppah with a clear head Hashem will answer the Tefilah of the friend in teh Zchus of the chessed of allowing the kallah to go to her chuppah with minuchas hanefesh.
August 8, 2011 4:12 am at 4:12 am #795847WolfishMusingsParticipantFTR, I have never worn a kallah’s jewelery and was, BH, successful in finding a spouse. 🙂
The Wolf
August 8, 2011 6:29 am at 6:29 am #795848haifagirlParticipantFTR, I have never worn a kallah’s jewelery and was, BH, successful in finding a spouse. 🙂
Wolf,
I am very happy about both of those things. 🙂
August 8, 2011 6:21 pm at 6:21 pm #795849adorableParticipantheard of it and lots of my friends have done it but I never had that “zechus” to actually wear it! I dont think it has any mekor and I think its just made up!
August 9, 2011 10:52 am at 10:52 am #795850AstrixParticipantI held onto (not wore) the chosson’s jewlery a couple of times.Somehow it became a thing to give it to your closest friends or ppl who need to get married.Peace.
August 9, 2011 7:56 pm at 7:56 pm #795851aries2756ParticipantIt is a segulah and I don’t know where it comes from. I don’t know if it brought down in a sefer or it was brought over from Europe but I know that it is something that was handed down for generations.
August 9, 2011 9:10 pm at 9:10 pm #795852ToiParticipantProminent Kallah teacher told me it has no mekor whatsoever
August 9, 2011 9:16 pm at 9:16 pm #795853YW Moderator-105ParticipantThere’s a segula for the choson to give his cuff links to 2 different people. It’s a segula to get them back
August 9, 2011 9:19 pm at 9:19 pm #795854ToiParticipanthe doesnt have trhem yet silly. he gets them in the yichud room!!
August 9, 2011 9:32 pm at 9:32 pm #795855sheinMemberIt’s not a segula. It’s just a convenience that frequently occurs.
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