December 19, 2010 11:17 pm at 11:17 pm #593595memoMember
What criteria is necessary for a guy to be willing to go out on a date? Also does who the shadchan is play a role in a guy willing to go out…??????????December 20, 2010 1:26 am at 1:26 am #718779popa_bar_abbaParticipant
If she sounds the most like what he is looking for out of all his present options, and it is not too inconvenient.December 20, 2010 3:37 am at 3:37 am #718780WolfishMusingsParticipant
What criteria is necessary for a guy to be willing to go out on a date?
At the risk of sounding stupid, wouldn’t that vary from one person to the next? Or is there some secret set of criteria that all males have that I was not privy to when I was dating?
The WolfDecember 20, 2010 4:23 am at 4:23 am #718781Pashuteh YidMember
1) She is very good-looking
2) She is very rich.
3) Her father is very well-known.
Any other questions?December 20, 2010 5:55 am at 5:55 am #718782Brooklyn YentaParticipant
pashuteh yid, stick with the first two. that’s what really counts. in that order 🙂December 20, 2010 7:09 am at 7:09 am #718783
im sorry…i think money comes before looks ;)).
well im practically perfect in every way so who wouldnt want to date me….but sometimes guys are intimated by good looks, money, education, career, etc, it really depends on the guy.
be sure, that the type of guy u are looking for would also be interested in the type u are ex: if ur more modern and ur looking for a full time learner, u may wanna reconsider….December 20, 2010 11:05 am at 11:05 am #718784yeshivaguy1Participant
I disagree looks come before money. For me personally, I don’t want a girl who grew up in a very rich lifestyle (it doesn’t matter how rich the father is) because I don’t want to have to support that lifestyle. I would like to spoil my wife but I don’t want unrealistic demands put on me.December 20, 2010 3:34 pm at 3:34 pm #718785
Healthy outlook. I think it’s disgusting when guys are only interested in the amount of money a girl has. I know I’m generalizing, but when I hear of a guy who’s very rich I’m wary because I assume they’re snobby.December 20, 2010 4:10 pm at 4:10 pm #718786
Thats bkz you want to keep going to Europe…Im guessing you don’t want a learning guy, bkz there is no way that he can pay for it, unless his parents or yours has money…but then again, I think you had said precviously that you want yichus too!December 20, 2010 4:51 pm at 4:51 pm #718787
pb its scary how u know me so well by now!! i date guys who learned in yeshiva, then got totally awesome jobs so they can work and i can go shopping??!?! and be a mommy of course!!??!December 20, 2010 5:30 pm at 5:30 pm #718788
Wait so what do you do now? And does the guy have to be in yeshiva fulltime? And somehow have an MBA from Harvard? And be loaded?December 20, 2010 6:13 pm at 6:13 pm #718789
no i work and i am graduating this semester then going for masters and studying for the cpa, but i def only date guys who went to mir, brisk or tzvi kaplan then to ivy league schools…okay fine so maybe none of them went to brisk or tzvi kaplan but oj and tomo are pretty close rite?
and they dont need to be loaded but a football player built is a must!!! Also with an awesome education jewish and secular i have emunah that he will be rolling in the $$$December 20, 2010 6:23 pm at 6:23 pm #718790
Cool, mazel tov?
Tomo and OJ are 2 very diff schools!!!! And what if they dont have a secular education, like alot of Tomo guys? LolDecember 20, 2010 6:25 pm at 6:25 pm #718791arcParticipant
money and then looks. at least thats the shadchans order.December 20, 2010 6:26 pm at 6:26 pm #718792
What’s oj? And ship the football player builds over!December 20, 2010 7:13 pm at 7:13 pm #718793
u guys do realize that im joking about all of that…. except the football player part :)) dunno, i just cant compromise on that one!!!December 20, 2010 7:26 pm at 7:26 pm #718794
I know what you mean 😉December 20, 2010 7:36 pm at 7:36 pm #718795
So what type of guy are you really looking for? i have a bunch of all different kinds of friends. And some do look like football players;)
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