Hi my sister is having a mitzvah Tanz by her wedding and we are supposed to tell the in laws about the family what are we supposed to say ? The chasunah is in 2 days imyh
could you clarify your question? im not sure i get what you are saying.
Amazing how rabbonim allow 1000’s of dollars to be wasted on mitzvah tanz and yet the regular groups come every morning looking for my quarter by shachris.
Mazel tov! I wasn’t aware there were any special “sayings” at the mitzvah tantz.
The less the better.
Mention the attributes of your ancestors. Everybody has something nice to say about their grandparents that is noteworthy.
lopman24, could you clarify why it costs thousands for a mitzvah tanz? I’ve never stayed that long at a chassidishe chasunah, so I’m not familiar with all the nekudos.
The badchan, the musician(s), the hall. they dont do it for free.
This post is probably after the mentioned wedding but I did not want to leave the comments of lopman24 and apushatayid uncostested.
A normal mitzvah tanz,where mainly family and close freinds stay, only requires a badchan for an extra hour or so. The main band has usually left at this time and only a skeleton musician is there for music. The hall-obviously- you need for the wedding , so there is no extra expense there.
Only at so-called “rebbeshe’ weddings do you have extensive mitzvah tenz and this is not what is asked for anyone else.