August 8, 2011 4:44 pm at 4:44 pm #828597YaelaMember
I want to clarify that I am an adult and I live with my husband. I haven’t lived with my parents in many, many years. I answered the question on this thread and then people started asking me questions about it. I think we can move on to someone else’s life now:-)
to jmj613- everyone has their own problems and you’re entitled to your feelings no matter what someone else has gone through. There are always going to be people with lesser and with greater problem than you and I.
Health what is Narc Anon? Why not NA and AA?
Ohhh I think you mean NAAugust 8, 2011 4:50 pm at 4:50 pm #828598aries2756Participant
Yaela, I realize that, what I meant was, they should not depend or turn to their children for help and solutions. You are entitled to live your own healthy and separate lives.
Next…..August 8, 2011 4:54 pm at 4:54 pm #828599HealthParticipant
What do you think NA means?August 8, 2011 6:48 pm at 6:48 pm #828600YaelaMember
Thanks Aries – you are right. I need to focus on my own life now. I was responding to people that thought I still lived with my parents.
Health- I got confused because there is a group called Naranon for family members and friends and Narcotics Anonymous – but it goes by the acronym N.A.August 8, 2011 8:45 pm at 8:45 pm #828601smileyface136Member
jmj: You are permitted to be overwhelmed by your problems no matter what kind of problems other people have. Hurts are not really comparable. Your hurts hurt you and you are entitled to complain about them.August 10, 2011 8:44 am at 8:44 am #828602kapustaParticipant
i wanna place a question here. i read about mommas issues in past and also here. yaela too and all the others. while if we use our brain some seem less of a big deal then other but its how each individual reacts to it. i feel my issues are chocking me(shulem bais, depression, some yiddishkeit issues, issues with parents and some minor abuse from someone as kid which i call not abuse but using)but when i read here what people went thru i feel i dont have the right to even think of complainin. does anyone else feel like this? is it normal?
Don’t they say that if one had to choose a “pekelah”, he would choose his own?
In any case, lots of hatzlacha with everything.November 20, 2011 10:25 am at 10:25 am #828603
Look at how much personal information is being asked, prompted and volunteered in threads such as this one. And look at the unfamiliar or even one-off names. Never reply to such threads. Especially when the OP doesnt give but only wants to take and has no valid reason to justify it. Yes, maybe we have all been too trusting and naive until now. Things MUST change!November 20, 2011 2:52 pm at 2:52 pm #828604moi aussiMember
What’s wrong with a support group?November 21, 2011 10:50 am at 10:50 am #828605
What’s wrong with a support group?
Nothing. But unfortunately, with stalkers and trolls around, this is the type of thread that they would live off. It provides endless personal information.
I dont know the solution how to negate the efforts of stalkers and at the same time safely hold support groups online. Maybe create a new SN just for that thread? Whadya think?November 21, 2011 2:24 pm at 2:24 pm #828606tzaddiqMember
I have been victim to a stalker about a year ago (from a different site) and have learned the hard way. It was catastrophic to say the least. An intrusion on my private life, and endless pangs of guilt on my part for allowing it to happen. I may be new to the CR, but I’ve seen way too much personal info from some posters here. I concur to Shticky Guy’s warning and strongly suggest to keep the information to a bare minimum.November 21, 2011 5:12 pm at 5:12 pm #828607
I concur to Shticky Guy’s warning
Wow. That must be one of the smartest posts ever. You’re a Tzaddiq.
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