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January 21, 2026 12:19 pm at 12:19 pm #2501853Yaakov Yosef AParticipant
A number of regular commenters in the Coffee Room have repeatedly expressed the following ideas:
1. Most or all of contemporary non-Frum Jews are Mumarim, Kofrim, etc. despite knowing little or nothing about Yiddishkeit and often being fed constant incitement against Yiddishkeit (through Israeli public school and media, or in Chutz Laaretz through non-Orthodox “denominations” and total immersion in Goyish culture and ideas from the cradle.)
2. That when חז״ל say a מחלל שבת בפרהסיא דינו כגוי it means he literally IS a גוי, not simply that we treat him AS IF he was a גוי FOR CERTAIN PEUPOSES ONLY.
3. That all of the aforementioned Kofrim, plus many or most of the Frum Jews who aren’t holy enough, will soon be killed in preparation for the Geulah במהרה בימינו.
4. Therefore there is no obligation to even TRY to be מקרב anyone, or even CARE about anyone who isn’t Frum, maybe even someone who IS Frum but has krum hashkafos.
My questions for you (you know who you are):
Do you think you yourselves are in the top 7,000 members of Klal Yisroel or whatever your numbers are?
Do you at least get up at חצות and cry and mourn that so many einiklach of Avrohom Yitzchok and Yaakov are so far gone, and cry and daven with copious tears that they should do Teshuva? (Something the Divrei Yoel, Minchas Elazar, and other tzadikkim were known to do.) Or is that also Assur? Or do you just not care and finished?
If you were a Hatzalah volunteer, and a non-Frum Jew was having a heart attack ר״ל, would you really and truly be מורידין ולא מעלין, or would you (at LEAST) say ספק פיקוח נפש להחמיר when you have BOTH a פלוגתא דרבוותא and a ספק במציאות? Can you NAME ANY POSEK WHATSOEVER who would Pasken to literally leave the person to die?
If you can’t give a straight answer to those questions, then you need to ask yourselves some questions.
January 21, 2026 2:03 pm at 2:03 pm #2501982SQUARE_ROOTParticipantYaakov Yosef A, I thank you for sharing your accurate facts and valid logic.
Yaakov Yosef A, I thank you for speaking the truth to people who need to hear it.
May G*D always grant you health any happiness.
January 21, 2026 2:03 pm at 2:03 pm #2501991Yaakov Yosef AParticipantA few more questions.
How was the First Beis Hamikdash destroyed because Jews did Avoda Zara? According to you, as soon as someone did AZ (kal vachomer from chilul Shabbos), he would be erased from Klal Yisroel and not count towards ערבות or anything else. Klal Yisroel would simply be the sum total of whoever didn’t do AZ or Chilul Shabbos. So how do we see the Neviim giving Mussar to these people (probably including your great-great-zaidie and bubbie) who you don’t consider to be Jews? Sort of like no OTD in Satmar because anyone OTD isn’t Satmar… No AZ in Klal Yisroel because anyone doing AZ isn’t Klal Yisroel… Except it didn’t work that way then, even though then everyone knew better and they had a Sanhedrin and Neviim and Malchus Bais Dovid. But NOW, when רובא דרובא of those born Jewish are confused or clueless about basic Emunah, including many Frum people, you think it does work that way… פלאי פלאים נורא נוראות…
January 21, 2026 5:18 pm at 5:18 pm #2502092[email protected]Participant@yaakov-yosef-a
As somejew you know and love, I’ll respond first to your numbered points:1. It’s not “despite knowing little or nothing”, it’s specifically because of it. One cannot be “Achicha” b’mitzvos if they don’t know enough. (there is fascinating Torahs written about if/how an infant is achicha based on this foundational point)
2. There are various levels relevant to different halachos, such as (sorry if I miss a few, this is all ad-hoc) an idolator, ben-noach, stam non-jew, tinok shenishbu, jew who joined a”z, jew who doesn’t keep majority of the (common) mitzvos, jew who doubts any of the 13 ikkarim, jew who doesn’t keep shabbos publicly, jew who regularly does multiple aveiros, jew who regularly does a single aveirah, jew who was forced to do an aveira, jew who did an aveirah to rebel against heaven, jew who did an aveira because of a personal consideration (pleasure, money, etc), jew who did an aveira because he didn’t realize what he was doing, jew who did an aveira because he misunderstood the haluche and thought it allowed. And all these (non linear, sometimes mix and matchable) categories are applied differently to different haluches such as killing then, passively letting them die, saving their lives, saving their lives while “breaking” shabbos, self-defence, yichid, mesira, tzedukeh, dinei mamunos, ribis, loving them, hating them , lushon hureh, motzi shem ru, airiv tachumim, shchita, hischabris, yayin nesech, chezkus kashrus, n’emunis, etc.
3. There is a red line of who is part of “amecha” (am yisroel/klal yisroel), and those basic requirements are 1) keeping most common mitzvos, 2) believing without doubt the 13 ikarim, 3) keeping shabbos publicly. Like any sugya, there is much beautiful Torah iyun in each part of that “red line” (what means “public”?, what are the exact terms of the ikarim?, etc) , but the red line exists whether we can identify the minutia of its precise location or not.
The living population count of those who are in “amecha” does not change the “red-line”. It might be 10; it might be 10 million.
I don’t know who if others or anyone will be “killed in preparation for the Geulah”. It’s not anything I’ve studied, unfortunately.
4. I never said anything like this. I am active here in CR specifically to help kosher people that have been lied to.
Now on to your questions:
> Do you think you yourselves are in the top 7,000 members of Klal Yisroel or whatever your numbers are?
I hope so, but can’t be sure. Chazal say one shouldn’t consider themselves a rushe. However, I am always trying to learn more and align myself to Torah.
> Do you at least get up at חצות and cry and mourn that so many einiklach of Avrohom Yitzchok and Yaakov are so far gone, and cry and daven with copious tears that they should do Teshuva?
No.
> Or is that also Assur?
No. I daven the whole world should be full of “Daas Hashem”, and with copius tears. However, it might be assur to specifically or publicly daven for minim as it 1) imply a correction to anshei knseses hagedolah’s established tefila for their destruction, 2) goes against the Torah sources that say explicitly that they are NOT “einiklach of Avrohom Yitzchok and Yaakov” just like we don’t daven as such for their other non-Jewish eineklach (like bnei Yishmoel or Edom), 3) might be “madiach” chalila other yidden to foolishly think they are part of klal yisroel and reinforce the zionist lie that Jews are part of Am Yisroel even without Torah, thereby breaking the many halochos that dictate how kosher jews must relate to such minim.> Or do you just not care and finished?
No, I do care. I hate the reshoyim and cry for the tinukos shenishbu like those trapped at YU and HUC and Mirkaz Hara. At might shabbos tish, like many, we encourage our kids to eat the chulent saying “yeder bundel hargit a tziyoni”.
> If you were a Hatzalah volunteer, and a non-Frum Jew was having a heart attack ר״ל, would you really and truly be מורידין ולא מעלין, or would you (at LEAST) say ספק פיקוח נפש להחמיר when you have BOTH a פלוגתא דרבוותא and a ספק במציאות? Can you NAME ANY POSEK WHATSOEVER who would Pasken to literally leave the person to die?
As the Chazon Ish says, we must judge each person individually. And, poskim have been clear that we must always be machmir on all sides when concerned for pikiach nefesh. I’m not sure what “pligsa” you are referring to.
This is all besides the fact that with a known rushe merisha, I’m pretty sure the reasons for saving their lives include “aimuh”, threats of jail as punishment (especially for emergency workers), as well as loss of future privilege by those organizations that help enable their lifesaving work.
January 21, 2026 5:18 pm at 5:18 pm #2502093[email protected]Participant@yaakov-yosef-a
More question, more answers:
> How was the First Beis Hamikdash destroyed because Jews did Avoda Zara? According to you, as soon as someone did AZ (kal vachomer from chilul Shabbos), he would be erased from Klal Yisroel and not count towards ערבות or anything else. Klal Yisroel would simply be the sum total of whoever didn’t do AZ or Chilul Shabbos. So how do we see the Neviim giving Mussar to these people (probably including your great-great-zaidie and bubbie) who you don’t consider to be Jews? Sort of like no OTD in Satmar because anyone OTD isn’t Satmar… No AZ in Klal Yisroel because anyone doing AZ isn’t Klal Yisroel… Except it didn’t work that way then, even though then everyone knew better and they had a Sanhedrin and Neviim and Malchus Bais Dovid. But NOW, when רובא דרובא of those born Jewish are confused or clueless about basic Emunah, including many Frum people, you think it does work that way… פלאי פלאים נורא נוראות…I don’t appreciate you hanging this on me, as my stance is well documented in Chazal and poskim. Argue against the Torah claim, not the person. I didn’t invent anything I’m saying. At worse, I’ve misunderstood something (or everything). If you think I have made a mistake, ask me for a source instead of asking me to defend the Torah generally.
In any case, this seems to be one long single question. The Satmar Rebbe (I recall) asks this question in his hakdumeh to Vayoel Moshe. His answer is that kosher Jews were punished in Bayis Rishon for not being properly moche.
January 22, 2026 1:29 pm at 1:29 pm #2502118Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantYYA< thanks for formulating this so well.
some> who is part of “amecha” (am yisroel/klal yisroel), and those basic requirements are 1) keeping most common mitzvos, 2) believing without doubt the 13 ikarim, 3) keeping shabbos publicly. … as my stance is well documented in Chazal and poskim.
I asked and may have missed the answer: could you pls provide a reference that says tinokos shenishba are not counted in amecha. From universally accepted sources, such as MB, not from the individual poskim, however great they might be. And also, you can’t make such decisions from books only – please tell us what your ruv said about this idea.
Given the severe implications of your so well stated position, I will have to exclude you from amecha unless satisfactory answers are provided.
January 22, 2026 1:29 pm at 1:29 pm #2502169SACT5Participant“4. Therefore there is no obligation to even TRY to be מקרב anyone, or even CARE about anyone who isn’t Frum, maybe even someone who IS Frum but has krum hashkafos.”
What a bizzare & offensive conclusion.
There is only one ultimate judge.
Humility would do you good.
You are clearly struggling with ahavas Yisroel.
Learn to love your fellow Jew even those you view as flawed, that’s what we’re commanded!January 22, 2026 1:29 pm at 1:29 pm #2502185Yaakov Yosef AParticipantDear SomeJew
Disclaimer: Personally, I am anti-Zionist and wear a shtreimel every Shabbos. I also am involved in various chessed and זיכוי הרבים projects that reach many Yidden who dress and behave very differently, including those who לעת עתה aren’t Shomer Shabbos. And including some who used to be that way, but now wear veisse zucken and shtreimel, and their wives shave their heads… That didn’t happen because someone yelled at them or dedicated his cholent eating to their death…
Chiyuv Tochacha only applies to “amisecha”… Arvus may be more extensive but it certainly doesn’t apply to Goyim.
BTW, the list of people who are גיהינום כלה והם אינן כלים in Meseches Rosh Hashanah, as well as אין להם חלק לעולם הבא in Maseches Sanhedrin, DOES NOT include מחללי שבת. It DOES include ‘mosrim’, something many fine Heimishe Yidden unfortunately do when it suits their purposes, and it DOES include מאי אהני לן רבנן, something you can see every day in the YWN comments section.
SomeJew said: “No. I daven the whole world should be full of “Daas Hashem”, and with copius tears. However, it might be assur to specifically or publicly daven for minim as it 1) imply a correction to anshei knseses hagedolah’s established tefila for their destruction, 2) goes against the Torah sources that say explicitly that they are NOT “einiklach of Avrohom Yitzchok and Yaakov” just like we don’t daven as such for their other non-Jewish eineklach (like bnei Yishmoel or Edom), 3) might be “madiach” chalila other yidden to foolishly think they are part of klal yisroel and reinforce the zionist lie that Jews are part of Am Yisroel even without Torah, thereby breaking the many halochos that dictate how kosher jews must relate to such minim.” עד כאן
1. “The whole world should be full of “Daas Hashem” means PEOPLE, including Goyim, not rocks and trees and squirrels…
2. Since at least SOME (probably the vast majority) of the non-Frum ARE in fact NOT real hard-core Erev Rav minim etc., and those (millions of neshamos) at LEAST כלפי שמיא גליא who they are, so what is the problem to PRIVATELY Daven to Hashem (who knows who they are) to bring them back בתשובה שלמה לפניך? Something Anshei Knesses Hagedolah also included in Shmoneh Esrei, although I wasn’t talking davka about the regular seder of davening.
3. Why is davening for the above any סתירה to saying ולמלשינים (‘malshinim’ includes “chassidim” and “Rebbes” who go to ‘arkoyos’ ר״ל, do you know any?) As soon as they do Teshuva they are no longer minim and malshinim… That is much more פשוט than saying that as soon as someone does X he is no longer a Yid…
4. What I heard from my Rebbe, is that on a practical level anyone who is not a מסית ומדיח to OTHERS and doesn’t seek to harm OTHERS (malshinim etc.) or spread his krum hashkofos to OTHERS is for most purposes בחזקת that we DO treat him as a Yid, certainly for Davening and Chessed, also for Kiruv if possible, despite what HE PERSONALLY does wrong in his life לעת עתה because of weakness or lack of chinuch.
January 22, 2026 1:30 pm at 1:30 pm #2502192yankel berelParticipantSomejew has zuken mamre cards which he gives out whenever gdolei hador, talmidei hahamim or rabanim explain or apply hazal
in a way which contradicts
somejews understanding of the torah
rov minyan ubinyan of erliche klal yisrael with their gdolim have siyata dishmaya to mechaven to the emet
somejew is the one who knows the ‘truth’ and accordingly excludes whoever disagrees
instead of employing some humility before those greater than him
i.e. the gdolei hador
he self appoints himself as the one who is shofet et hashoftim ….
he reeks of ga’ava ….
no wonder that in his klal yisrael there are only a few hundred members …
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January 22, 2026 1:30 pm at 1:30 pm #2502211anIsraeliYidParticipant@SJIK – you’re statement that “At might shabbos tish, like many, we encourage our kids to eat the chulent saying “yeder bundel hargit a tziyoni”” is both shocking and sickening. Did you not ever hear about what Bruria Eshes Rv Meir said to him about “Yitamu Chata’im min haAretz” – Chata’im v’Lo Chot’im?
Even according to your (incorrect, in my view) Shita, you should be saying “yeder bundel brengt tzurik a Tziyoini in Tshuva”. To wish death on your fellow Jews? “U’lefi shehozi es atzmo min haKlal – kafar b’Ikar”.
an Israeli Yid
January 22, 2026 1:30 pm at 1:30 pm #2502212anIsraeliYidParticipant@YYA – sorry for commenting in this thread – but that statement was just so outrageous I could not let it pass without challenging it.
an Israeli Yid
January 22, 2026 1:30 pm at 1:30 pm #2502215Yaakov Yosef AParticipantSomeJew – It may come as a shock to you that I have a daily Seder in Vayoel Moshe. I recently reread the Hakdamah. Which does talk about Tochachah to those who do or don’t listen and other issues, but does not directly address the Nekudah I touched on. Tochachah is explicitly linked to the status of עמיתיך as in הוכח תוכיח את עמיתך. Even מחאה may at least be dependent upon ערבות. We have no chiyuv of any kind to be mocheh on what Goyim do. The point of demonstrations, according to Satmar, is to show that Israel doesn’t represent the Jewish people. That is not מחאה in the usual Chazal sense of the word, and certainly not תוכחה. The Neviim and Tzadikkim at the time of the Churban were expected to do actual תוכחה as in עמיתך. So the Reshaim who insisted on doing outright Avoda Zara despite living with Neviim and the Bayis Rishon and knowing their Yiddishkeit better than we do were still considered עמיתך, but the nebbech know-nothing victims of two centuries of Haskalah and Zionism are held MORE responsible for their actions עד כדי כך to write them out of Klal Yisroel and not even DAVEN for them?! Do you understand how you are going much further than the ויואל משה ever intended to go to the point that you make no sense? Even THOSE real reshaim from the end of the Bayis Rishon, Hashem had to tell Yirmiyahu Hanavi אל תעתר בעד העם הזה ואל תפגע בי, meaning that up until then Yirmiyahu WAS davening for them and his Tefillos were delaying the Churban… This is just one example out of many.
January 22, 2026 1:30 pm at 1:30 pm #2502217Yaakov Yosef AParticipantDisclaimer:
This is NOT a thread about Zionism or anti-Zionism. One can be as Zionist or anti-Zionist as can be and still agree with the points being made here.
January 22, 2026 1:30 pm at 1:30 pm #2502228Yaakov Yosef AParticipantSomeJew: As the Chazon Ish says, we must judge each person individually.
YYA – So now you are gores the Chazon Ish…
SomeJew: And, poskim have been clear that !!!***we must always be machmir on all sides when concerned for pikiach nefesh.***!!!
YYA: Thank you. That is what I was waiting for you to finally be forced to admit. What about Ruchniyusdige Pekiach Neifesh?
SomeJew: I’m not sure what “pligsa” you are referring to.
YYA: The same one you just referred to…
SomeJew: This is all besides the fact that with a known rushe merisha, I’m pretty sure the reasons for saving their lives include “aimuh”, threats of jail as punishment (especially for emergency workers), as well as loss of future privilege by those organizations that help enable their lifesaving work.
YYA: Maybe, although there aren’t many of those, and having ones life saved by Chareidim can cause even real hard-core ‘anti’ types to rethink their attitude… Something that has happened in real life. For the record, the היתר you are referring to was never said with regard to during the week, only to allow even chilul Shabbos, and usually in the context of עכו״ם ואכמ״ל ברשות הרבים.
January 22, 2026 8:00 pm at 8:00 pm #2502649[email protected]Participant> YYA – So now you are gores the Chazon Ish…
when did I ever push against the chazon ish?> I was waiting for you to finally be forced to admit.
why the language of “forced to admit”, where was the initial friction?In questions of pikiach nefesh, when there is a question of tinik shenishbu o’nes, one should presume they are o’nes and save their lives. This is exactly the language of the Rambam who says one shouldn’t be too hasty to kill them for being minim because they might do tshiva if you mekarev them. Yet none of this precludes our obligation still to hate them, not give them tzedukeh, speak badly on them, etc. in the meantime and they are still not part of klal yisroel until they chose to join us, and this is even if they are indeed tinokus shenishu.
> What about Ruchniyusdige Pekiach Neifesh?
I don’t know what that is.January 22, 2026 8:01 pm at 8:01 pm #2502655Yaakov Yosef AParticipantSACT5 – חס ושלום, that is not my opinion, I was just lining up some of the nonsense being spewed here in order to demolish it.
January 22, 2026 8:01 pm at 8:01 pm #2502679Yaakov Yosef AParticipantSomeJew said: “No, I do care. I hate the reshoyim and cry for the tinukos shenishbu like those trapped at YU and HUC and Mirkaz Hara. עד כאן
YYA: Why are those ‘trapped’ at YU and Mercaz Harav ‘Tinokos Shenishbu’? ממה נפשך, if you hold they are Kofrim ח״ו, then they are מזיד, because they learn Torah and should know better. If you hold they are just confused because of their circumstances, so קל וחומר those born and raised non-Frum… Do you even realize how far you have drifted from any semblance of logical thinking?
SomeJew said: At might [my] shabbos tish, like many, we encourage our kids to eat the chulent saying “yeder bundel hargit a tziyoni”.” עד כאן
YYA: I heard years ago from my Rebbe זצ״ל (who was a big anti-Zionist) that there are people who say this. To put it VERY mildly, he did not like the idea and said it is horrible Chinuch… This is the first time I have ever encountered anyone who admits to actually saying such a thing to his children. So, let me ask you. Where does this הנהגה come from? Why, in the middle of your Shabbos Seuda, do you and your children need to think of Zionists and violent death, which would probably upset your Oneg Shabbos unless you are psychopathic sadists? And if you do need to wish death upon someone in order to enjoy your chulent, so why not say ‘Amaleki’?
Another question: What do you think about more often – Hashem, Torah, or להבדיל Zionists?
January 22, 2026 8:01 pm at 8:01 pm #2502680Yaakov Yosef AParticipantRabbosai, please note. I have learned Vayoel Moshe, Al HaGeulah, and many parts of the Divrei Yoel on the Torah and Moadim etc. The disturbed and warped ideas being presented here are NOT to be found there. SomeJew and friends have taken certain ideas and statements out of context and out of proportion and flown away with them to places the Divrei Yoel never went. Aside from total made-up nonsense like the chulent cursing stuff.
January 23, 2026 10:12 am at 10:12 am #2502696SACT5ParticipantThank you for clarifying! I withdraw my comment.
January 23, 2026 10:12 am at 10:12 am #2502699yankel berelParticipantSomejews posts are plain abhorrent .
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January 23, 2026 10:12 am at 10:12 am #2502707[email protected]Participant@anisraeliyid
zionists, especially to “religious” min, are not “fellow jews”, they are amulek, may they be peacefully uprooted from the world.January 23, 2026 10:13 am at 10:13 am #2502710[email protected]Participant@yaakov-yosef-a
the chidish of tinik shenishbu is that they are o’nes and NOT mazid if they are taught something heretical as “Truth” and didn’t have enough access to the real Truth that they would be obligated to recalibrate to.once a certain threshold of exposure is passed, and this is where many struggle to delineate clearly, they become mazid if they don’t become ereliche yidden. I don’t know if such a “mazid” person would still be called a “tinok shenishbu” in common usage of the term. If you want to agree between use that “tinok shenishbu” should only mean while they are still “o’nes”, I think that would make the conversation easier.
Regardless, those “trapped” in the notzri or zionist churches I was referring to are those who are the “o’nes” type of tinok shenishbu.
> YYA: I heard years ago from my Rebbe זצ״ל (who was a big anti-Zionist) that there are people who say this. To put it VERY mildly, he did not like the idea and said it is horrible Chinuch… This is the first time I have ever encountered anyone who admits to actually saying such a thing to his children.
what do you mean “admit”? This is something taught to our children in the largest Satmar mosdoses (amongst others), which is – I should reiterate – the largest charedi subgroup. I find it telling that you have sedarim in Vayoel Moshe and Al HaGeilah, but you have never met someone who grew up in and is a student Satmar…
Again, if there was a private channel to communicate, I would happily learn with you.
> So, let me ask you. Where does this הנהגה come from?
I don’t know.> Why, in the middle of your Shabbos Seuda, do you and your children need to think of Zionists and violent death, which would probably upset your Oneg Shabbos unless you are psychopathic sadists?
It’s not a violent thought, it’s more happy unicorns and flowers as we imagine the world being purified from all their Zionist filth and guns and wars and battles against yiddishkeit, and imagining the world where Hashem’s Kisei is Shulem. Kind of like Pirim, but without being shiker.> And if you do need to wish death upon someone in order to enjoy your chulent, so why not say ‘Amaleki’?
It’s a good question. I don’t know why they changed their name from “Amaleki” to “Zionist”. Perhaps they thought it better PR to fool the Jews, but we’re one step ahead with our chulent.Another question: What do you think about more often – Hashem, Torah, or להבדיל Zionists?
Hashem and His Torah, without a doubt.January 23, 2026 10:13 am at 10:13 am #2502708yankel berelParticipantsomejew is in the business of giving out zuken mamre cards ….
did it ever occur to somejew that he himself might be the prime candidate ….
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.January 23, 2026 10:13 am at 10:13 am #2502717Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantI almost chocked on my re-heated chulent from reading this. You start valuing mods after they retire … Thanks to YYA and others who wrote nice responses. My only question remains – is there a live Rav who approved these positions or the poster simply comes up with his own interpretations (or reads these interpretations).
January 23, 2026 10:13 am at 10:13 am #2502724yankel berelParticipantYYA
you learned vayoel moshe and al hageulah
maybe you can help
SR quotes maharal that 3 shavu’ot are applicable even if faced with pikuach nefesh
how does that jibe with SH’A YD 157 that only 3 hamurot are yehareig ve al yaavor ??
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.January 24, 2026 7:10 pm at 7:10 pm #2502867[email protected]Participant@yankel-berel
maybe just read SH’A YD 157. it does not say “only 3 hamurot(sic) are yehareig ve al yaavor”January 24, 2026 7:10 pm at 7:10 pm #2502868[email protected]Participant@yankel-berel
> somejew is in the business of giving out zuken mamre cards ….
again, you keep laying out this acusation, but I don’t believe I’ve ever labeled anyone a zuken mamre. The closest I have come is saying that IF you claim a certain gadol is a zionist, then you are simply claiming him a zuken mamre.In reality, our charedi gadolim are – without exception – explicitly and adamantly anti-zionist. that is what “charedi” means (in common usage)
January 24, 2026 7:10 pm at 7:10 pm #2502870Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantyankel, I did not (yet) learn vayoel moshe, but when under shmad, we don’t change even minor things, right? Just playing shvuos advocate.
January 24, 2026 7:10 pm at 7:10 pm #2502872yankel berelParticipant1] zionists, especially to “religious” min, are not “fellow jews”, they are amulek, may they be peacefully uprooted from the world.
2] At shabbos tish we encourage our kids to eat the chulent saying “yeder bundel hargit a tziyoni”.
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both the above quotes are from somejew
somejew encourages his kids to pray for ‘hargenen’ the zionists
and somejew also wishes for the tsionim to be ‘peacefully uprooted’
without going into the contradictions between those two wishes
he seems to be aiming those prayers and wishes, at most , if not all , non satmar minded jews in EY ….
now the question is , how wide is the difference between the prayers and wishes of somejew on this particular topic … and the prayers and wishes of the average hamas supporter on this particular topic ????
food for thought ….
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.January 24, 2026 7:11 pm at 7:11 pm #2502938Yaakov Yosef AParticipantYankel Berel:
In Siman 32 and 33 the Satmar Rebbe זצ״ל himself adds several additional kashes on the pashut understanding of pshat in the Maharal, including that there is a גזירת הכתוב to Patur from אונס by any Shevuah, and that “going free” because one is forced to do so is itself a lack of freedom that לכאורה couldn’t be called גאולה and certainly not מרידה… He also questions how or why there could ever be a היכא תמצא that the אומות would force the Jews to violate the Shevuos, especially the Shevuah not to rebel against them, which would be inherently impossible… At that point he discusses if the ‘Oaths’ are shevuos in the normal Halachic sense and the problems involved in saying that (applicability to future generations, etc.) which segues into a discussion of the similar kashes on the Oaths at Har Gerizim and Arvos Moav. בקיצור נמרץ, all of the above Shevuos aren’t ordinary personal Shevuos in the regular Halachic sense, but part of the Covenant between Hakadosh Baruch Hu and Klal Yisroel, which includes the clause of Galus. By Siman 76 and 77 the discussion returns to the Maharal. Basically, the bottom line is that the Maharal’s scenario by definition could only apply to the Shevuah שלא לדחוק את הקץ, which the Maharal evidently holds would imply denying the covenant of קבלת התורה, (because Galus is part of the ‘contract’ so to speak), something tantamount to one saying that he “isn’t a Jew”, even without accepting a different religion, which IS ייהרג ואל יעבור for that reason (denying he is part of the Covenant that created the Jewish People.) This is just a brief synopsis, you can check it inside for more details. אגב, I noticed that the ויואל משה also addresses in the above discussion ZSK’s הערות WRT the lashon of Iggeres Teiman. (“As if Shevuos”, i.e. the ‘Oaths’ are not precisely ‘shevuos’ in the ordinary Halachic sense, but a ‘covenant’ with the force of a Shevuah.)
January 24, 2026 7:11 pm at 7:11 pm #2502941Yaakov Yosef AParticipantSJ: “may they be peacefully uprooted from the world.”
YYA: “Mostly peaceful”?
January 24, 2026 7:11 pm at 7:11 pm #2502948Yaakov Yosef AParticipantבתכלית הקיצור, there is a מושג that BOTH שיטות are necessary, at the same time. As in שמאל דוחה וימין מקרבת on a cosmic level. This is a concept discussed in Likutey Halachos (by R’ Nosson of Breslov) in a number of places. The צדיקים who went with the מידת הדין weakened and drove away the forces of the סטרא אחרא and mitigated the קטרוג above (as in השיב את חמתי בקנאו את קנאתי), which was מעורר רחמי שמים and enabled the צדיקים who went with מידת החסד to be mekarev lost neshamos. A process that will be completed by Moshiach. R’ Nosson brings the Posuk in Amos הלא כבני כושיים אתם לי (which דרך אגב is almost always read the Shabbos before a certain date after Pesach…) where the Navi calls the sinful 10 Tribes Goyim, and not just any Goyim… And immediately after Hashem says כי לא השמד אשמיד את בית ישראל נאם ה׳ and the following Pesukim of רחמים, i.e. they really aren’t THAT bad… He explains that calling them Goyim was itself a veiled לימוד זכות, because compared to וכו׳ they aren’t nearly as bad as the Middas HaDin claims they are. These דיבורים of Tzadikkim also serve to push away the genuine ערב רב, who we cannot identify through Halachic criteria, and ultimately only Hashem can perform this בירור.
1. So it is necessary for צדיקים to both be מרחק and מקרב, and for us to believe אלו ואלו דברי אלקים חיים and not be confused by this.
2. Don’t go kill anyone thinking they are literally Amalek.
3. (Above and beyond the civility and care the Torah teaches us in dealing with human beings in general) we do need to love and care about anyone Halachically Jewish who isn’t a מסית ומדיח or otherwise a proactive danger to others. We AT LEAST need to Daven for them to do Teshuvah.
4. We do NOT need to love or respect their krum hashkafos or join projects and institutions opposed to the Torah.
January 25, 2026 3:32 pm at 3:32 pm #2503086yankel berelParticipantthe answer you gave from vayoel moshe only covers the gemara which limits the yehareig veal yaavor to the 3 hamurot
where seemingly SR classifies the shavu’ot under avoda zara
this still needs much thought , but that is for a different occasion
but that was not my query
my question was specifically to shulchan aruch YD 157
where shulchan aruch does not mention the shavu’ot as an avera where there is an obligation to be moser nefesh
nor does rama
nor do any of the nos’ei keilim say so
you did not address that
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that was the question
January 25, 2026 3:32 pm at 3:32 pm #2503164Yaakov Yosef AParticipantSomeJew said: “once a certain threshold of exposure is passed, and this is where many struggle to delineate clearly, they become mazid if they don’t become ereliche yidden. I don’t know if such a “mazid” person would still be called a “tinok shenishbu” in common usage of the term. If you want to agree between use that “tinok shenishbu” should only mean while they are still “o’nes”, I think that would make the conversation easier.” עד כאן
YYA: You assume that people who were raised and lived their whole lives a certain way are expected to immediately “become Ehrliche Yidden” at the drop of a hat as soon as they pass a certain “threshold of exposure”. As if the inertia of their matzav itself doesn’t create any level of אונס… Did you think about that possibility? What about people who know Judaism exists but never had any firsthand positive interaction with it? Or worse, they were ‘brainwashed’ against Yiddishkeit by their parents, teachers, or the media. Do you understand why this matters?
SJ: “This is something taught to our children in the largest Satmar mosdoses (amongst others), which is – I should reiterate – the largest charedi subgroup.”
YYA: Do you understand that the moment you even theoretically accept the possibility that ‘Klal Yisroel’ numbers only 7,000 people you forfeit any right to make an ‘argument from numbers’?
SJ: “I find it telling that you have sedarim in Vayoel Moshe and Al HaGeilah, but you have never met someone who grew up in and is a student Satmar…”
YYA: I have met many people who are either Satmar Chassidim or were students of Satmar or Satmar-oriented mosdos, but I have never heard any of them הלכה למעשה write off 99.95% of people born to Jewish mothers as literally being Goyim. I find that telling. I also find it telling that you seem to struggle with marei mekomos from the seforim of your ‘own’ Chassidus.
Another question I wanted to ask you: לשיטתך, what will happen to the millions of non-Frum Jews when Moshiach comes?
1. They will all do Teshuva for their issues, just like we will do Teshuva for our issues, and all of us will be the גוי קדוש that Hashem created us for? (Presumably there will be greater שכר for those who chose to do Teshuva before Moshiach came and made it a no-brainer, but no one will be completely left out.)
2. They will be killed by some cataclysmic event or plague or be executed as mumarim?
3. They will continue to live as Goyim, but not as part of Klal Yisroel?
4. Some other option? Going with Elon Musk to colonize Mars?
January 25, 2026 3:33 pm at 3:33 pm #2503284[email protected]ParticipantI would be very interested in continuing this conversation by email if you want to do a deeper dive into mekoros. you can reach out to me at my gmail
January 25, 2026 11:45 pm at 11:45 pm #2503323ujmParticipantYYA: There’s a clear shitta (which I believe is the majority shitta) that **any** exposure to frum Yidden makes a non-frum Jew NOT a tinok shenishba. (Despite all your taainos against this shitta.)
January 25, 2026 11:45 pm at 11:45 pm #2503353Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantmakes sense, who wants to debate in front of a bunch of goyim. Why did you even signed up for the site that has rov goyim? You do realize that if you lose your train of thought here, nobody is going to return it to you?!
January 25, 2026 11:45 pm at 11:45 pm #2503357[email protected]Participant@yaakov-yosef-a
> Did you think about that possibility?
I’m not sure what you are inserting into my words. At this point, I don’t even know what we are arguing about. You seem to be very confused about a subject that is causing you to spin your wheels in exasperation.The category of “tinik shenishbu” is NOT a category of “in” or “out” of “amecha”, rather it is its own sugy the discusses whether o’nes actions are ones or not. A person can be otherwise “charedi” and be a “tinik shenishbu” (read o’nes) vis-a-vis any given haluche if they were raised with that mistake from their parents.
1) So, you can have a yid growing up in the jungles of the Amazon amongst mamash goyim, and he would be a “tinik shenishbu” vis-a-vis all his aveiras (with caveats that would distract from this conversation). He would also NOT be part of “amecha” in that he is not “achicha b’Torah i’mitzvos”. His status as “tinik shenishbu” would simply mean that he is not punished for the aveiras that are not his fault, like any other o’nes.
2) Alternatively, you can have a “Modern Orthodox” yid growing up in LA who keeps kosher and shabbos, hangs out in mixed company, shakes womens hands and hugs them casually, has an unfiltered smartphone, and marries a lady with a long lace-shaitel and send his kids to college (rachmunu latzlan on all of this). He would certainly agree to ALL of the 13 ikarim and keeps all the haluches as taught to him by his “conservative-friendly rabbi (sic)”. He is simply not aware that his “rabbi” is crooked in telling him all the above is okay. This person would be a “tinik shenishbu” vis-a-vis all those aveiras and also be “amecha” in that he believes all the ikarim, keeps shabbos, and keeps most mitzvas, and doesn’t do any aveiras “l’hachis”.
3) Take the above person, and instead of him believe all the 13 ikarim, he was instead taught as a child to reject the Written Torah (chalilah!) as being perfect letter for letter, and no one ever taught him different. Now, he would seemingly be a “tinik shenishbu” who is NOT part of “amecha”.
4) Take the above person, and have his local charedi rabbi inform him about the accuracy of our Torah as a fundamental of Judaism, and now if he is mekabel, he becomes part of “amecha” and otherwise (chalila) he would stay not part of “amecha” and perhaps lose the excuse of o’nes.
> YYA: Do you understand that the moment you even theoretically accept the possibility that ‘Klal Yisroel’ numbers only 7,000 people you forfeit any right to make an ‘argument from numbers’?
> YYA: I have met many people who are either Satmar Chassidim or were students of Satmar or Satmar-oriented mosdos, but I have never heard any of them הלכה למעשה write off 99.95% of people born to Jewish mothers as literally being Goyim. I find that telling. I also find it telling that you seem to struggle with marei mekomos from the seforim of your ‘own’ Chassidus.This is exactly the argument I was making previously. Religious Jews CANNOT make a numbers game. Not only is it an anti-Torah concept, it doesn’t make any sense. All “orthodox” Jews reject 99.95% of people claiming to be the true “chosen nation”, including notzrim, reform, and zionists. We ALSO, as per the clear psak of Rambam, S”A, and LITERALLY EVERY OTHER MAJOR POSEK we reject all Jews who aren’t achicah b’mitzvos as NOT part of “amecha”.
This has nothing to do with the other very important sugyas of our obligation to hate and/or mekarev anyone based on our relationship with them and the ways that they present themselves to the world.
BTW I apologize that after reading what I wrote my use of “our children” seemed to imply that I send my own children there. I try very much not to talk about myself in these threads as it is immaterial, but I do not claim to be Satmar nor do I claim to send my children to “the largest Satmar mosdoses”. I intended to phrase “our children” it that was to mean “klal yisroel’s” children, meaning it’s the largest chinuch network in the world (I didn’t check any actual stats here, just basing this off the oversieded Satmar population in the world, kain yirbi).
Regarding “haluche lemayseh”, I’m not sure what haluches you are talking about. Would ANY of them drink wine whose 99.95% touched?
> Another question I wanted to ask you: לשיטתך, what will happen to the millions of non-Frum Jews when Moshiach comes?
I have not idea what will happen when Moshiach comes beyond what is written in classic seforim. As I understand it, Moshiach will return everyone to tshiva. This will be precluded by or together with some sort of biur where the reshoyim will be destroyed. I’m not sure the timeline, only that WE will not know who is moshiach until he brings all of klal yisroel to tshiva shleima.
January 25, 2026 11:45 pm at 11:45 pm #2503367Yaakov Yosef AParticipantYankel Berel:
Sorry for not being clear enough. The Maharal, according to the Vayoel Moshe, would equate violating the Shevuos not to Avoda Zara, but to the scenario discussed in Siman 157 Se’if 2, which forbids a Jew to claim to be a Goy in order to save his life. (Most editions of Shulchan Aruch say ‘Oved Kochavim’, but the real uncensored nusach is ‘Goy’, and that is how the סעיף is discussed in ויואל משה, which is crucial for our discussion. For one to say he is a ‘Christian’ is פשיטא ייהרג ואל יעבור because he is being מודה לע״ז, but that is not the subject of סעיף ב׳.) The problem with making such a statement is that he is denying that he is a part of the Covenant of קבלת התורה, which is כפירה. The Shevuos are part of the ברית of אם בחוקותי תלכו, which contained the clause of Galus, and was repeated in Arvos Moav and at Har Gerizim and Har Eival. Denying any part of that ברית would be tantamount to saying one “isn’t a Jew”, i.e. isn’t subject to the ברית that made us the עם השם, which IS ייהרג ואל יעבור according to the שולחן ערוך. Note also that the Shulchan Aruch there doesn’t provide an exhaustive list of statements and ideas that a Jew must avoid on pain of death, even to list the Ikkarim of the Rambam for example.
January 26, 2026 10:04 am at 10:04 am #2503505yankel berelParticipantYYA
so why does shulhan aruch , rama or any of nosei keilim not mention that for the shavu’ot one must sacrifice one’s life ?
Am not asking on maharal himself who is not bound by shulhan aruch
am asking on those who claim that shavu’ot is yehareig veal yaavor halacha lemaaseh …
and are therefore disregarding pikuach nefesh in practice ….
why does shulhan aruch not mention this as one of the averot one is obligated
to give your life for ?
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is there another area in halacha where halacha pesuka is arrived at in such a similar mannerrelying on a maharal who wrote on agada
seemingly contradicted by all poskim including shulhan aruch and nosei keilim
or is that only done in this particular sugyia ?
and on top of that in the sugya of hamura shebachamurot — pikuach nefesh ….
and not only pikuach nefesh … but mass pikuach nefesh ….
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you write that this is part of behukotai and therefore kfira and therefore included in the prohibition of saying i am not a jew ….
that is meant to explain the negation of pikuach nefesh considerations in whether to keep the IDF intact …
I cannot see why a Jew who openly proclaims he is a Jew and proclaims fealty to each and every word of the torah , including behukotai
and to the shavu’ot and only supports pikuach nefesh considerations …
why should such a person be considered like someone proclaiming his not a jew ….
why should such a person be considered like someone who does not accept the torah ….
he says it clearly … he accepts … he says clearly that it is only because of pikuach nefesh which is docheh all issurim that he is over on the shavu’ot …
is that the pashtut of the mechaber and rama to include such a person within the klal of someone denying his jewishness ???
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.January 26, 2026 10:04 am at 10:04 am #2503514[email protected]Participant@ujm
> There’s a clear shitta (which I believe is the majority shitta) that **any** exposure to frum Yidden makes a non-frum Jew NOT a tinok shenishba. (Despite all your taainos against this shitta.)that’s a machlokes Rambam and Nimukei Yosef (and Rebaini Tam), with the Rambam allowing exposure without necessarily losing the status of o’nes.
While the Mechaber and Ramu paskin like the Rambam, the Shach adds that the Rambam would agree with Radba”z who says that more decrepit generations (like in the time of the Radba”z) completely lose the exception of “tinok shenishbu”, regardless of exposure.
The Baal Hatanya (end hilchos ribis) brings both (Rambam and N”Y) l’haluche and says one should be machmir for both for d’orysas.
January 26, 2026 10:04 am at 10:04 am #2503517[email protected]Participant>Sorry for not being clear enough. The Maharal, according to the Vayoel Moshe…
I want to thank you for that explanation. Very well written and to the point.January 26, 2026 10:05 am at 10:05 am #2503596741ParticipantI did not read the full thread but I needed to answer what you wrote very briefly.
You should learn perek lamed beis in Tanya, over there it speaks about what you write over here.One simple question that I have for you: if your own child were to decide to go otd or to become a tzioni, would you still prey for his death and downfall, as is written in the bracha of ולמלשינים, or would you do everything in your ability to bring them back because it’s your own child?
To Hashem, every yid is like an only child.
January 26, 2026 3:43 pm at 3:43 pm #2503658Yaakov Yosef AParticipantYankel Berel Re. Maharal
You asked me for how the ויואל משה explains pshat in the Maharal. That’s what I wrote. The wording of the ויואל משה doesn’t suggest he agrees הלכה למעשה that the שבועות are ייהרג ואל יעבור, and he admits that the Maharal is a Chiddush, and even adds additional kashes on the Maharal. But then your Kashe is on the Maharal, not on the ויואל משה. Siman 157 is a very short siman on a very big topic. There are many more relevant and realistic (for the time of the Mechaber and Ramah) scenarios not spelled out there, or even in the Meforshim on the ‘daf’. And the bottom line is that as we both agree there are bigger problems with Zionism than this.
January 26, 2026 3:43 pm at 3:43 pm #2503890Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipant> **any** exposure to frum Yidden makes a non-frum Jew NOT a tinok shenishba.
This would clearly be different depending on circumstances and times. It is one thing when someone is captured by some tribesmen, is illiterate, and then being brought to the functioning Jewish community. It would be different if someone is exposed to various philosophies (whether medieval Christianity or Islam or any combination of modern -isms) and is also then is exposed to Judaism that has multiple non-kosher branches plus kosher variations that sometimes call other variations treif.
January 27, 2026 10:09 am at 10:09 am #2504222yankel berelParticipantYYA
maybe I did not explain properly
my question was not on maharal
it was on the widely held belief that SR holds that p/n is not docheh the shavu’ot
how does that square with SH’A YD 157 ?
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.you claim that SR agrees that p/n is doche the shavu’ot ?
any discussion I had with satmar people on this topic , yielded the same result
p/n is not docheh the shavu’ot
it does not sound that they all are mistaken in the shitah of the SR
just last week I asked a satmar aligned rav who used to give public shiurim on vayoel moshe
this very same question re p/n being docheh the shavu’ot according to sh’a
he said that SR held that p/n is not docheh the shavu’ot
when I asked about the pashtut of the shulhan aruch YD 157
he said that he does not know and has to be me’ayen
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besides:Its not just an ‘omission’ in the mechaber and rama
As far as I remember they state that in all other issurim the klal of yaavor veal yehareig applies
technically the shavu’ot [if indeed applicable lehalacha as SR holds in his sefer] are included in she’ar issurim
thats the pashtut
so we do have a statement that all issurim are nidcheh mipnei p/n , including the shavu’ot ….
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.What do you think ?
January 27, 2026 2:44 pm at 2:44 pm #2504487v32itasParticipantmy idea from reading many english versions of torah. and noticing law differences between 3 key names for people
jew
israelite
hebrewin torah sense basically The Jew in sense i got is the only status of a person to be taken seriously.
as israelites because of moses himself are special snowflakesand hebrews are only fellows that are mainly bound to jews by torah law that is that fellow hebrew must be released from binding contract after 7 years.
so technically A jew in bible is only status to be legally taken seriously
as in my understanding hebrew fellows can legally dodge nearly any responsibility be that employment, marriage or debt and actually legally get away with it. so hebrew even if a fellow he is legally allowed to dodge many responaibilities.
israelite special snowflakes has a privilage to get loans from jews without interest.
and the only group in english torahs that has to technically abide all laws is jews. only group in english torahs that are legally responsible and therefore trustworthy
but this iw just my own many different english torahs reading opinion.
some day i will learn biblical hebrew.
January 27, 2026 2:44 pm at 2:44 pm #2504510Yaakov Yosef AParticipantYankel Berel said: “it was on the widely held belief that SR holds that p/n is not docheh the shavu’ot”
IMHO, a careful reading of the ויואל משה inside does not bear that out.
January 28, 2026 8:29 am at 8:29 am #2504588Yaakov Yosef AParticipantv32itas – I don’t know what translation you are using, but you seem to be confused by it. You would do yourself well to buy an Artscroll Chumash, and even better a set of Artscroll Rashi translated. “The Living Torah” translation by Rabbi Aryeh Kaplan is also an excellent resource. The terms you listed are synonymous.
January 28, 2026 11:01 pm at 11:01 pm #2505292Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantv32, I don’t think there is “Jew” (Yehudi) in the Torah (Chumash). It appears as a reference to all Jews (rather than someone from the tribe of Yehudah) in Megillah for Mordechai who os from Binyamin, this is where “Jew” starts signifying the whole nation due to 10 tribes disappearing and the remnants mixing up in exile.
Avraham is the first Hebrew “Ivri”, being different from others, passing a boundary/river.
Israel is mostly used as children of Yaakov as a symbol of a nation.
Not sure why it is “Eved ivri” / a Jewish slave, maybe he at the moment is not representing the nation, being a lowly slave.
I am sure there are books and books written about these.
In modern times, maskilim (secularists) tried using Hebrew/ Polish-Russian:Evrey instead of Jew/Zhid to denote national Jews v. religious. Thus, all kind of “Hebrew societies”, “hebrew schools” were created.
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