Because I don’t want to. Because it will NEVER be “just this one time”. Because it’s against halacha.
Even that much gets me in deeper than I want to be. ‘Why can’t “YOU” just be more accepting of how we are living our lives?’
I guess your family is less (or more?) religious than you are?
I once wrote something along these lines Parshas Para:
keep doing what you know is the right thing and dont listen to other ppl
Chana can u give an example of what they ask u to do?
I hear ya Chana, and there’s also don’t tell me what is right and wrong, I know what’s right and wrong
just thinking about this in the other way. what if they dont understand why you cant give something up (they dont want you to do it) but you still want to and feel like you must. but they dont want you to….