The whole way Americans pronounce things makes no sense. The israelis kamatz is basically the same as an andrican cholam (the harry type) except that it sounds more American. If israelis did it the harry way they have to nkudos the same. So i just dont see how the harry way could ve right. I was however told that its a an actual machlo(i)kes in the po(i)skim
. Ive never seem it inside and wouldnt know where to look but ive heard people say that.
Regarding though why girls do the “ow” sound probably cuz it would just sound weird if they did “oy” just try to picture it. Idk itd just weird me out if on a date a girl said “toyra hakdoysha”
Chasidish girls use the same Chasidish havara as boys. Yeshivish girls user the same havara as their brothers, for the most part.
I would like to quote from an online article written by Rabbi Yosef Grossman.
[There was a sign]
(to be continued…)
the Nun with a Kometz and not with a Chirik under the Daled
(DEE) as is the custom of some who are mistaken and think that
name with a Chirik even a hundred times a day is not transgressing [the sin of]
[Rabbi Grossman] once asked the great Posek Rav Pinchas Sheinberg [zatzal]