Why do we behave better when we go out in the world?
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January 27, 2011 7:36 pm at 7:36 pm #594560HealthParticipant
A lot of us behave differently in the goyishe world, then we do when we are in the frum community, Why?
I think maybe it’s because as children our Principals, Rebbeyim, teachers always used to warn us before a class trip -“You had better behave, you don’t want to make a chillul hashem!”.
January 27, 2011 7:50 pm at 7:50 pm #732990Feif UnParticipantI think you have the question wrong. It’s not why do we behave better when we’re out, it’s why do we behave worse when we’re in the Jewish world?
January 27, 2011 8:08 pm at 8:08 pm #732991real-briskerMemberMaybe you only realize how well you behave when you are amongst people that dont know what behave means.
January 27, 2011 8:11 pm at 8:11 pm #732992deiyezoogerMemberWhy do kids behave better in school then at home? (well at least most kids).
January 27, 2011 10:20 pm at 10:20 pm #732993smartcookieMemberFor the same reason we behave our best for 12 dates…
And people still believe they “know” the boy/girl by then…
January 27, 2011 10:34 pm at 10:34 pm #732994cutie pieMemberSmartcookie- back to that again….. 🙂
January 27, 2011 10:48 pm at 10:48 pm #732995smartcookieMemberYes cutie pie. And I really have no patience so let’s continue on!!
January 27, 2011 11:22 pm at 11:22 pm #732996eclipseMemberBottom Line:Be consistent.
January 28, 2011 1:03 am at 1:03 am #732997HealthParticipantRB -Which people don’t know what behave means?
January 28, 2011 2:20 am at 2:20 am #732998eclipseMemberNot consistently bad.:)
January 28, 2011 2:44 am at 2:44 am #732999snapplegrlMember“i have 2 words for you BE HAVE!!!”
January 28, 2011 2:49 am at 2:49 am #733000HaLeiViParticipantThe same reason you don’t dress the same when staying at home.
January 28, 2011 2:51 am at 2:51 am #733001yogiboobooMemberi hate it when kids dont behave in general lol
January 28, 2011 3:17 am at 3:17 am #733002real-briskerMemberHealth – The op was refering to goyim.
January 28, 2011 3:31 am at 3:31 am #733003oomisParticipantWhy do people treat strangers better than their own family members, at times? It’s because they want to IMPRESS the stranger and don’t feel the need to do so for their own family.
January 28, 2011 5:44 am at 5:44 am #733004HaLeiViParticipantYour own family feels like an extension of yourself. People feel, subconsciously, that they can be sort of Moichel their family’s Kovod.
January 28, 2011 1:43 pm at 1:43 pm #733005eclipseMemberHaleivi,well-put.
But why do people think if you love people “anyway” you can mistreat them?
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