Why do we behave better when we go out in the world?

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    Health
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    A lot of us behave differently in the goyishe world, then we do when we are in the frum community, Why?

    I think maybe it’s because as children our Principals, Rebbeyim, teachers always used to warn us before a class trip -“You had better behave, you don’t want to make a chillul hashem!”.

    #732990
    Feif Un
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    I think you have the question wrong. It’s not why do we behave better when we’re out, it’s why do we behave worse when we’re in the Jewish world?

    #732991
    real-brisker
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    Maybe you only realize how well you behave when you are amongst people that dont know what behave means.

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    deiyezooger
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    Why do kids behave better in school then at home? (well at least most kids).

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    smartcookie
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    For the same reason we behave our best for 12 dates…

    And people still believe they “know” the boy/girl by then…

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    cutie pie
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    Smartcookie- back to that again….. 🙂

    #732995
    smartcookie
    Member

    Yes cutie pie. And I really have no patience so let’s continue on!!

    #732996
    eclipse
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    Bottom Line:Be consistent.

    #732997
    Health
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    RB -Which people don’t know what behave means?

    #732998
    eclipse
    Member

    Not consistently bad.:)

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    snapplegrl
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    “i have 2 words for you BE HAVE!!!”

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    HaLeiVi
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    The same reason you don’t dress the same when staying at home.

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    yogibooboo
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    i hate it when kids dont behave in general lol

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    real-brisker
    Member

    Health – The op was refering to goyim.

    #733003
    oomis
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    Why do people treat strangers better than their own family members, at times? It’s because they want to IMPRESS the stranger and don’t feel the need to do so for their own family.

    #733004
    HaLeiVi
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    Your own family feels like an extension of yourself. People feel, subconsciously, that they can be sort of Moichel their family’s Kovod.

    #733005
    eclipse
    Member

    Haleivi,well-put.

    But why do people think if you love people “anyway” you can mistreat them?

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