November 24, 2010 8:46 pm at 8:46 pm #712450eclipseMember
moderator did my post get edited?or did i forget to press “send post”November 25, 2010 1:19 am at 1:19 am #712451apushatayidParticipant
Sitting in shul at maariv tonight I couldnt help but wonder if the men whose bellys were trying really hard to break free from the constraints of the buttons on their bekeshas and jackets got married at that weight, or they put it on after marriage.November 25, 2010 4:30 am at 4:30 am #712453sms007Member
WIY, you do have a point, a wife is always supposed to look put together- before he comes home she should fix herself up for him, and most importantly have on a warm smile. I think as long as she is a happy person and thats most important. A skinny grump won’t do too much in a marriage. Theres more to this thought that I just can’t seem to put into words, but hopefully you’ll catch my drift. Think about it- there are heavier women out there who have perfect marriages!November 25, 2010 4:45 am at 4:45 am #712454ronrsrMember
some men are cursed by having wives who are excellent cooks. I know that is the problem I have to fight against every day.November 25, 2010 5:07 am at 5:07 am #712455WIYMember
Heavy women can have a great marriage. But just like women expect men to be sensitive to whats important to them, they need to be sensitive to whats important to us.November 25, 2010 5:13 am at 5:13 am #712456popa_bar_abbaParticipant
Yes, good point.November 25, 2010 6:19 am at 6:19 am #712458HealthParticipant
Why when everyone talks about weight -it’s because of how the man or woman look on the outside? How come noone mentions the issue that being overweight is a major health issue in this country?November 26, 2010 2:13 am at 2:13 am #712460HashemLovesMeMember
what kind of shallow question is this? if we are talking about a health issue, like, where it really becomes a problem, than the title of this thread should be worded very differently. but reading the posts, this is not the impression i got, and i have every reason to believe that i am right (unfortunately) in my assumption as to what the poster means.
i assume the poster is a guy, in which case i ask: would you like ur wife not to have kids c”v, so she can stay slim? can you be sure that u will look the same as you did on ur wedding day for the next thirty, forty, fifty, (etc) years… meaning no balding, no pot belly…. don’t u always want to look really handsome for your wife?
WHAT HAS THE WORLD COME TO??????? IS THIS WHAT WE FOCUS ON?????????
sorry if i sound so harsh, but this post really blew my mind!November 26, 2010 2:20 am at 2:20 am #712461eclipseMember
i also found the title of this post offensive.it’s like starting a thread entitled”men who wake up with bad breath”.maybe the mods can close this sickeningly over-discussed topic?
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