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Hi,
I just wanted to elaborate on a post I made earlier this week and in light of the agunah crisis some important things that both girls and guys should have in mind as many people tend to date in the summer and romantically get engaged. I speak as one who has witnessed marital abuse as a child and as one who nearly fell into the same trap. I have not dated much but there are things you should know to watch out and break up over.
* dating websites; if they are free to contact all members and someone contacts you. Immediately ask for references. Do not assume they are legitimate.
*if they dont give you references within two days or a bunch of them that you wouldn’t call such as from the us to israel or email addresses only and they did not just move here from another country, break up.
* if he is vague when you ask him how his day went and what he did, which are things you have the right to know, more than two days in a row from the start, break up.
* texting only relationships are also red flags as well.
coffee room, please add more.
If he/ she says they get most of their advice from, or ask their shailos to, blogs or anonymous web forums or other similar sources, ask your Rov or mentor, who will concur with this piece of anonymous advice, drop them like a hot potato.
Vdal.
Wait so people only romantically get engaged in the summertime?!
People are more passionate and less logical in the summer than in the winter.
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