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  • in reply to: SHIDDUCH CRISIS SOLUTION #874260
    brooklyn shadchan
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    To Yatzmich .please excuse my grammer .I hope you and every one else is taking me seriously and are not baseing it on my writing but on my thoughts

    in reply to: SHIDDUCH CRISIS SOLUTION #874259
    brooklyn shadchan
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    To yungerman1 i realised after ,that you were talking as a bochur.I am sure your learning after the chasana you feel better about your self that you are learning not just for yourself but for your mishpacha

    in reply to: SHIDDUCH CRISIS SOLUTION #874255
    brooklyn shadchan
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    Yatzmich I am close to 60 and i have made over 30 shiduchim B”H

    in reply to: SHIDDUCH CRISIS SOLUTION #874254
    brooklyn shadchan
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    I hope i didnt offend anyone it is only my opinion not daas torah

    DAAS YOCHID When a bochur goes to Brisk or R’Shalom he is going to get away from the normal schedual of being watched and told you have to daven in yeshiva and not in a shteibel,also to get away from pressure of family,and ofcourse to shteig .That learning part can be done also not in E”Y

    #147 I apoligize for using the word freezer

    HOLY BROTHER When you go to Brisk you are not in a shiur for the first year.You are learning in one of thr B”M .They should bring to Lakewood a talmid of RAvraham Yehoshua,a talmid of R”shalom and a talmid from all the other yeshivos that are learning Kodshim and they will have a shiur to go to.

    NECHAMA You are right about the word freezer.Most boys who stay in Lakewood dont get a dime the first 5 years About apartments and furniture it is easier in E”Y than in N.Y.My point of E”Y is that they are coming back when they are 23 -24 ,while the girls are waiting .Also a large % of boys go to E”Y because it is the thing to do.

    BPT Parents today are not teaching responsibility to their boys .They go to E:Y with a credit card and the father can tell all his friends that my son is in Brisk or other yeshivos.

    YUNGREMAN1 I am against starting to date late.Now i know why you are called Yungerman 1 .You are one of the few Yungermans that start learning at 7 ,believe me if all kollel guys would be like you ,then kollel would have the respect it truly deserves

    in reply to: Frustrated Mothers of Girls: Can we hear your ideas #845582
    brooklyn shadchan
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    Being a professional shadchan i must tell the people .Most shiduchim are made through family,friends .Coming to a shadchan be prepared to have patience ,we get so many names that it is very hard to speak to every one.It is not that we are ignoring any one it is just that their is only so much one person can do in one day.If anyone has any questions for me ,please ask and i will try to reply.I just had to take a break from my day.

    Besuros tovos

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