I mean, yes they are happy.  But I just don’t understand how it makes sense for me to continue living off of their money once I am married.  Isn’t man’s purpose in this world to work and support his family?  How will I be fulfilling the work and supporting my family part of it?  Also just to reply to people who think the title should be reversed… Being in Yeshiva is a fantasy life.  I’m surrounded by Torah and great rebbeim all day, my yetzer harah doesn’t have a chance against.  Once I enter into the college atmosphere(the real world) I begin to struggle and fight my yetzer harah.