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Not every divorce is due to not getting along or because of “problems” in the relationship. I know a couple who got along very well but who divorced when one of them went off the derech. Both parties admit they still love each other, but no longer have common ground. They are still on good terms and speak highly of each other as people. They just can’t share a life together anymore.
Health wrote: “Since when do I have to answer your questions? Some people think that if THEY ask a question – THEY must get an answer.”
Well, in a way you did answer the question. At any rate, it’s amusing that you say people are not entitled to answers just because they asked, when just two weeks ago you wrote:
“And I’m still waiting for one of these “angels” to answer Yes to the question I posted on the topic called – “Who wants to be a Tzadiekes like Rus?”.”
Well, Health, you still didn’t answer my question. Are you an older man hoping to marry a young woman? I think this whole thread is based on your personal desires.
“To all the women out there who are wondering if this thread is creepy:
popa_bar_abba: I agree. Very creepy!
YehudaTzvi, I wasn’t mocking you either. Even if there were elements of truth contained in the dream, which may or may not the case, the violence you committed in the dream was disconcerting. It bespoke an underlying rage that I thought you might want to address professionally.
“In a rage I went around the mansion destroying all the wealth. I tossed jewels and gold at people who were cowering under tables. I tore down the artwork and laid waste the entire house. I used gunpowder to set off explosions, using tichels that were tied together as fuses. Though windows were blown out by the explosions and many were killed, I was not harmed.”
I would speak to a psychologist about this dream, not a mekubal.
If there were more men like Boaz, then there might be more young women willing to marry them despite the age difference.
At any rate, marrying an older man is not what made Rus a tzadeikes. In fact, most tzidkanyos I have heard of were married to men about their own age, such as Rebbetzin Kanievsky and Rebbetzin Scheinberg – one has nothing to do with the other.
I get the feeling this question is personal. Are you perhaps an older man wishing to marry a young woman?