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  • in reply to: Coronavirus davening at home #1843674
    rbsyid
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    Rabbosai,
    Whilst it may be true that davening at home can be better for Kavana etc, however, the power of Tefilla betzibbur is incredible.
    In fact if a person davens in a tzibbur, even he does not have Kavana, his tefilla goes up with the rest of the tzibbur.
    Let us use this time to work on our tefilla so that when the shuls Open again, or when we meet in Yerushalayim to greet Moshiach, our tefillos will automatically be better.
    We will make bigger efforts to daven in slower minyonim, especially on Shabbos and Yomtov when there is no rush. The kiddush will wait another 20 minutes.
    We will leave our cursed phones OUTSIDE the shul so that we are not tempted to gloance at it while waiting for chazoras hashatz.
    WE will learn to connect to Hashem which is the purpose of davening in the first place.
    For those who are finding it hard to concentrate at home, try learning Rav Pincus and Rav Shwab’s books on Tefilla. Start the davening with korbonos and imagine that you are in tgeh Beis Hamikdash and actually bringing korbonos.
    Our tefillos are instead of korbonos.
    For those who can learn, try learn the sugyos of the korbonos to understand what is a Tomid, what was the avodas Haketoress.
    When you start davening with the korbonos, and then you go into Pesukei Dezimra to sing the praises to the Ribonno Shel Olom and thank Him for everything that we have (and believe me there is plenty to thank for especially now) – sing the Mizmor Letodo!
    When you say Kol Haneshomo Tehallel Kah, think about Al Kol Neshima Uneshima – for every breath of air that we take we need to thank Hashem.
    When you then go into Krias Shema and be mekavel Ol Malchus Shomayim and then you take 3 steps and enter the Palace! your davening will be different.
    Make yourself a special place in the house to daven. Put a table cloth on the table and make it a real sanctuary where you can meet Hashem there.
    All this will help you connect to Hashem and have better Kavanna.
    Let is use this time and get closer to Hashem so that we can meet in in the Beis Hamikdash Bekorov Beyomeinu Mamash!
    Good Shabbos
    MS
    RBS A

    in reply to: HaKaras HaTov -Vital for Good Marriage? #840985
    rbsyid
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    Silent One,

    Before going out with any other girls, you have to get a better understanding of what marriage is all about.

    I strongly suggest (and I am the furthest thing from a breslover or any kind of chossid)that you read Rav Shalom Arush’s book on marriage for men.

    I was married for 20 years + when I read it and I thought I knew what marriage was about. This book changed my life and from your post above I am willing to guarantee you that it will change yours too.

    Behatzlacha

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