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  • in reply to: Is there a Shidduch Crisis? #1137094
    ShalomToYou
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    MCP- Well said!! And you do bring up another issue. Many guys, myself included, simply aren’t attracted to heavy girls. Yet we read how shallow and superficial we are.

    Hashem made all types of people. What one person does not find attractive, someone else does find attractive.

    And don’t worry who will marry the heavy girls. I went out with a girl and was turned OFF by her looks, my friend went ahead and married her. So yes, my mother does ask dress size because if the girl is heavy, ITS A WASTE OF TIME

    in reply to: Is there a Shidduch Crisis? #1137081
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    AZ- Thanks for posting that article. Every time I see it it makes me want to scream. That’s why I started this thread

    in reply to: Is there a Shidduch Crisis? #1137077
    ShalomToYou
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    more_2- Look how brainwashed you are with the constant refrain of the ‘Shiduch Crisis’ now that you actually found a guy who’s single you can’t believe it.

    KGH- It’s my impression that NASI deals with the less yeshivish people although I could be wrong about that.

    I was recently redd to a 29 year old girl (older than me). I agonized about it for a while then said yes. The girl still hasn’t gotten back to me. You would think she’d be jumping at a chance to meet a normal guy

    in reply to: Is there a Shidduch Crisis? #1137068
    ShalomToYou
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    As for my friends,where are they hiding? How about BMG? One friend is 24, hasn’t gone out in months, not being redd, another friend was in BMG 3 years till he got engaged at 27. Bottom Line- PLENTY OF BOYS

    in reply to: Is there a Shidduch Crisis? #1137067
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    SaysMe-I wonder if you actually can make a list of more than 10 or 15 single girls you know. A shadchan told me “I know hundreds of girls over 23” She has yet to redd me some of them. I believe people over-exaggerate the situation. I challenge anyone out there to make a list of all single girls they know. See if its more than 10 or 20

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