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I’m with SamShtark. This is a serious issue, and requires a kesher with a Rav. Off the cuff, I know of someone with a serious health issue, and the rav told him to let the shidduch know when it started to get serious, in his social circles the 5th date. But when the shadchan offered to set him up with her daughter, he was told to tell immediately. So even the same person it can be different depending on the situation, besides the nature of the condition.
Samshtark- Your attitude is strange to me. Events in the world, and especially blows to frum people are meant to teach us lessons, to call us to do teshuvah. I don’t think the idea is to look at the negativity in the world and say, if only everyone was frum we wouldn’t have these problems. Furthermore, we are all connected, if we were doing our job, learning, davening, and doing mitzvahs l’shma, and having full ahavas yisroel, there would be no frayah yidden.