stop.

You don’t need to “solve” the shidduch crises we just need to have normal and natural expectations of marriage. You only need respect attraction and basic shared values to have a harmonious marriage. You do not need perfection. People should stop looking for crazy expectations when looking for a partner but find somebody _compatable_ with them. What your husband or wife does is not as important as who they are and how comparable you are my goodness. And can we go back to basic morals, like focusing on living within our means and having proper values.