Mazal tov!

First of all the cr isnt the best place to seek advice.

You never know who you’re talking to… but since you asked:

Remember that marriage is a commitment, you’re with this person for life, so you may as well get along. It can take a lot of hard work, but it is so worth it.

Say nice things even when you’re not sire if you really mean it your spouse will live up to your verbal epectations, so make them positive.

There will be challenges- either they can make you drift apart or bring you closer- its your choice.

A great marriage doesnt happen by itself, it takes work.

So two best tips for marriage is:

1:work on yourself, your middos. That you shouldve started a while ago, but its never too late.

2: keep the whole picture in mind before you say something or do something you might regret. At 80+ do you want to be that couple smiling at each other, or the one that cant even walk down the block together?

One more thing, now you’re happy and exvited about yourffuture spouse but thereight come a time when you can chas vshalom think ” what was I thinking?”

Know that no, there is absolutely no one better out there for you. Have eyes only for your spouse and you will be the happiest.

Your marriage/ spousr should be your focus and priority.

It’ll be very worth it.

Wishing you many happy years together.