Abusive men have 2 extremes…they are either Monsters or are the kindness most sweetest Dad/Husband you will ever meet…That is there pattern.
One minute they can be hitting you and your kids, the next they are helping you with every household chore and reading your kids bed time stories….
But under all that sweetness a monster lies beneath….Do yourself and kids a favour and get Help.
He will be abusive again, the next time it may be worse than a shove and a tongue lashing….