David Bar-Magen-
I was the poster who asked you not to pray for bad things to happen to someone who mistreated you, or to curse them (“curse” in this case meaning “may such-and-such befall you”, as opposed to uttering an obscenity).
That was not intended to berate you; it was a request. The last thing someone who’s suffering needs is someone else tut-tutting at them from an ivory tower.
You’re clearly an intelligent guy – IY”H you’ll find a better paying job sooner or later.
Besha’a tova with your IY”H upcoming simcha, which is far greater than any money-based simcha can ever be.