I have done both in the past, and last year due to a torn rotator cuff and had to order in. This year I am home again due to guests that I am lucky to have, my mom (she should be well till 120) and her sister (same brocha) as well as their aid. Today I just heard that my daughter and family and my son and family want to come as well. I will let them figure out how everyone will fit.
Pesach costs big bucks no matter what you do and you have to clean no matter where you are. Although it is great not to be in the kitchen, you have to trade that with getting dressed up for every meal and waiting to be served (getting the waiter’s attention etc) and still making sure that everyone at the table has what they need.
It is really no one’s business or concern to tell anyone else how they should make Pesach or comment on anyone’s decision. Each one of us make our decision’s according to our own needs and variables. Whatever you choose to do, whomever you choose to spend Pesach with, may it be a joyous and meaningful experience for all.