Reply To: How to answer questions regarding a shidduch

“Anyway, I think we will go with chanasara’s advice for now.

It might be sound advice, but I just want to point out that you initially rejected the idea. I quote from your OP:

“If she would have asked the caller what he’s looking for, or say that there are different standards of tznius, that would already raise a red flag.”

Daas Yochid – you got me there! 😉

I guess after reading all the posts, I came to realize that maybe that is the best way to go. It just has to be done the right way. I believe chanasara worded it in a respectful and non-judgmental way.