As someone with daughters and someone who has fielded shidduch calls. A few points.
An adult should NEVER be calling a young adult for a “halachic verification” ONLY an educator or a Rav should receive such questions.
I also, always started such conversations with, I will answer all yes/no questions to be best of my ability, but anything that involves my opinion, my hashkafa is irrelevant. Such was the advice I got from a Rav when my children entered the Parsha.
Remember, anything open to interpretation, is JUST THAT – not fact.