Here’s a breakdown of the difficulties as i see it:
1. Having Friends
a) at all
b) that you are/feel close with
c) that you are/feel not an outcast with
d) who u can put your gaurd down around and don’t have to be on defense
2. Belonging To A Sect
a) for feeling at home and a sense of kinship
b) who u can put your gaurd down around and don’t have to be on defense
c) you can just follow what comes along naturally instead of having to go thru each decision thoroughly
That’s why we have the coffee room.