Reply To: Good Forwards (Emails)

Michael is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good

mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask

him how he was doing, he would reply, “If I were any better, I would be

twins!”

He was a natural motivator.

If an employee was having a bad day, Michael was there telling the

employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to

Michael and asked him, “I don’t get it!

You can’t be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?”

Michael replied, “Each morning I wake up and say to myself, you have two

choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or .. you can

choose to be in a bad mood.

I choose to be in a good mood.”

Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or…I can

choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it.

Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their

complaining or… I can point out the positive side of life. I choose

the positive side of life.

“Yeah, right, it’s not that easy,” I protested.

“Yes, it is,” Michael said. “Life is all about choices. When you cut

away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you

react to situations. You choose how people affect your mood.

You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It’s your

choice how you live your life.”

I reflected on what Michael said. Soon hereafter, I left the Tower

Industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought

about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.

Several years later, I heard that Michael was involved in a serious

accident, falling some 60 feet from a communications tower.

After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Michael was

released from the hospital with rods placed in his back.

I saw Michael about six months after the accident.

When I asked him how he was, he replied, “If I were any better, I’d be

twins Wanna see my scars?”

I declined to see his wounds, but I did ask him what had gone through

his mind as the accident took place.

“The first thing that went through my mind was the well-being of my

soon-to-be born daughter,” Michael replied. “Then, as I lay on the

ground, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live

or…I could choose to die. I chose to live.”

“Weren’t you scared? Did you lose consciousness?” I asked.

Michael continued, “..the paramedics were great.

They kept telling me I was going to be fine.But when they wheeled me

into the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and

nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read ‘he’s a dead man’.

I knew I needed to take action.”

“What did you do?” I asked.

“Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me,” said

Michael. “She asked if I was allergic to anything. ‘Yes, I replied.’

The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I

took a deep breath and yelled, ‘Gravity’.”

Over their laughter, I told them, “I am choosing to live. Operate on me

as if I am alive, not dead.”

Michael lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of

his amazing attitude… I learned from him that every day we have the

choice to live fully.

Attitude, after all, is everything.

Remember that today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.

“Always give without remembering; always receive without forgetting”

*kapusta*