anonymisss, its not really possible to leave the situation because I have to see her everyday. Shes a very nice person, until she brings up this issue. She refuses to be hurt or upset because she just refuses to listen. and if I try and tell her she’ll give me a psychological term of what I’m doing. (last week it was defense mechanism, I would call it changing the subject.)
aussie, Oh, I thought the question was directed at me. (I guess in a way it was.) Its a great question!