newbee
I too am glad we can agree. Though I find it troubling that we cant agree that there is a mitzvah of simcha on yom Tov.
“Im not sure what you mean”
I’ll repost it a third time:
“Please let me know where you get lost:
1) No issurim were involved in the dinner
2) There is a level to strive towards to avoid Gashmiyus
3) This level is dependent on the people involved.
4) The people attending this dinner are not on your lofty level. OR more to the point – you dont know if they are
5) Giving mussar to people regarding a level they arent holding by is inappropriate
6) You criticized the dinner
7) Your criticism is inappropriate
Where did I lose you?”