Ohr Chadash – even if one brings something down as a good middah, if that person is choshuv it leaves the implication that NOT doing so is NOT a good middah. As a result, people start to forget that something has been SUGGESTED as being a good thing to do, and begin to believe that others who do NOT do it, are in the wrong (which we know is not the case). Would you agree with that statement?
