I read the first page not realizing it was from years ago.
There is no where in the torah that says women must shave their hair. There are minhagim. If someone’s minhag is to shave, then kol hakavod, shave!
Long hair can cause a chatzitza, but with a few extra minutes during chafifah, a woman can be toivel according to all poskim. For most men, long hair is attractive on a woman and I’m glad i can do that for my husband even at the expense of those extra few minutes.