How old are the children?
What kind of jobs are the 2 jobs. Does she work 16 hours a day?
Or is one job tutoring children one or two hours a day on sunday, and the other job styling sheitels.
I think the Odom Godol would certainly ask these questions and I think what he would advise them would be greatly dependent upon their levels of Yirus Shamayim, Bitochon, and love of the Abishter.
Maybe this is a family on the brink of destruction.
Maybe this family exists in a bliss that most of us could not imagine.
Let’s not assume too much based on our own american ideas and ideals.