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Appearances are nothing. I have seen Torah scholars with shirts tucked out, or putting a chumash under a siddur, or flicking a sefer closed instead of gently closing it.

The first “or” might have been a mistake. Either way, an untucked shirt

is apparently either supposed to be a sign of excellence or something on a level with putting a Chumash under a Siddur* or flicking a sefer closed instead of gently closing it.** I don’t like either of those options, so I’d prefer not to believe that post was sincere. (Actually, the second one doesn’t sound too far off.)

*

Don’t many Siddurim have the weekday leining in the back?

Is it still a problem to put such a Siddur on top of a Chumash?

**

Not bakavodik, to be sure, but how serious a violation

of halacha is it? (Also, familiarity breeds contempt, as they say…)