You are right. I do have a chip on my shoulder, a huge chip in fact, because I feel that this irresponsible division in the frum community must be fixed. Most of it is based on false premises. Imagine if R’ Nosson Tzvi Zt”l was denied a date because he went to a modern high school (much more modern than YU)!? We have to stop looking at where someone went and instead look at where he is heading. It is ridiculous to claim to know someone just based on the institution he attends/attended. There is absolutely no downside to accepting this date and trying it out. There is only upside.
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