And that is really sad. That people think they dont live in a vaccuum and that their actions do not affect other people
That’s not what is going on here.
You even gave an example of a woman who hurt nobody but herself in your famous (and difficult to understand) paper towel story.
You have not convinced anyone that keeping gebrokts imposes a hardship on anyone else (because it doesn’t).
Simple question: do you want people whose minhag is not to eat gebrokts to abandon their minhag and eat gebrokts?