Mw, I didnt quite get the beginning of that post but I just wanted to thank you for the tones of shalom.
I was very upset by the feel of certain posts (not mentioning names) and as a spectator, the holier than thou becomes very unpleasant sometimes “in the name of Halacha”. A personal request to please read and reread to see how some posts look to everyone else.
Ok, back to cleanup