EDITED at the request of the original poster
Zalman (if you will respond):
You are not new here, so you probably already have an answer to my question:
How do you reconcile “Kol Kavod Bas Melech” with Kollel wives working?
Also, do you have electricity? a Fridge? Internet? You are already not “living in the ways of our holy zeidas and bubbes, as they have since Matan Sinai”. You sound like you want the Jews to be Amish following Halacha, not Jews (Who invented “when in Rome, do as the Romans do”).
Lastly, with your shittos, what are you doing on the internet? Did you ask your Rav if you could be in the coffeeroom?
Get back to me after you ask.