“apushatayid – so you hang out with the other gender?”
You either have a fertile imagination, poor reading comprehension skills, or a combination of both.
“its not a psak to not hang out with the other gender most rabbis unless their mo say its not okay to hang out with the other gender.”
Halacha is unanimous that taking pot shots at other people (and I am not referring to me) is a violation of the lav of onaas devarim even if done on a website with the word yeshiva in its name.