WOW- I understand you .I felt the same way bec our family is BH not dysfunctional. basically though they are all out of the box and that is their common denominator..
yes they are exposed to more ‘experienced’ guys but who said they were not associating with them on the streets of whereever you live.
In williamsburg Brooklyn, R’ Yoel Roth also has a loose learning yeshiva and those that want to learn more join that shiur..
they sing to Hashem and do other ehrliche non-learning activities.
Definitely troubled kids, but a thousand times better than the ones in Zfas..