Pirate- a big brother idea is a good one, if he will let himself.
mom- I know it’s shabbos by u now and I wish you all the best.
was he home for shabos at all?
If you dont let him sleep will he stay home in the evening?
or will he find a friend with a bed..I had kids comng to me cuz they had to leave the house and then they finished sleeping by me (I mean my son).
I had a problem of evening occupation with this son of mine..If they are not learnrs or readers what is there to do?
they get bored and act up.. or leave the house or argue..
My son now owns a car and is forever with friends and BH does not listen to secular music but the cd is always on..
Keep on davening..