Reply To: Going off the Derech

pcoz-reward him with what for what?

mom12-the yeshiva that offers the dorming is not as ‘open’ as the other yeshiva, and the kids are all in black and white. I think they learn til around 3 or 4pm. If my son could handle it, I would prefer that one. The second yeshiva ‘learns’ until about between 12pm and 3pm, depending on the day, but it’s almost no limudei kodesh. The menahel explained that kids like this have a bad association about learning gemara and that’s why it’s minimal. But even though they were very warm and welcoming, it just seems like it’s nothing substantial. You can come late, leave early, learn, not learn..anything goes. Just what my son wants right now. Oh, and you can wear anything you want (Ugh…). I don’t really know what to do…